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DorkwithoutaBand

30 Salem, OR Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This man has greatly inspired my life, "a revolution to loving...disgustingly happy," http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Maw4Xg-6RAw

And a poem written in community college that still fits dandy-like:

My Dreams are Un-American

Condition me
To believe in a fallacy
Give false hope of another reality

A never ending desire
A capitalist ideal
Fueled by consumption, waste, envy

Content is a weakness
Scorned as lazy

So chase this dream
A dog nipping at its tail

I don't want that dream
That one thing we can never attain
Everything
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love and help to support two children that have adopted me without biological or legal obligation. They're not MY kids--the kids being a possession that belongs to me as some would envision is not accurate--though as my grandmother would say, "They're family, and that's it."

I love nature and taking people to visit beautiful places. Photographs are fantastic. Currently, I'm working up to some technical mountains.

I serve people, so currently I work with individuals with developmental disabilities and I maintain low-income properties.

Fixing peoples things and stuff.

Political attention and action living close to the capitol as a moral necessity. I don't expect others to share a devout interest as well.

I make all-grain beer and berry-filled mead.

Being happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile and think, usually simultaneously.

Communication and community service I have a degree in.

Being confident and nice, even when others are not.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My ass. It's smart.

That I am not pretentious, and that it's dandy to be yourself too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The kids, a friend, jobs, natural beauty, and hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The kids. Inequality. Nature. Beer. Work. A lady.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working with clients usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like poetry.

Billy Collins poem: Embrace.

You know the cheap parlor trick.
Wrap your arms around your own body
and from the back it looks like
someone is embracing you,
her hands grasping your shirt,
her fingernails teasing your neck.

From the front it is another story.
You never looked so alone,
your crossed elbows and screwy grin.
You could be waiting for a tailor
to fit you for a straitjacket,
one that would hold you really tight.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're courteous and value assertive communication, as I am not just a hotdog-shirted avatar.

You could tolerate doing dishes if I cook and vice-versa.

You'd rather talk to a person than a graphical user interface.

You aren't looking to hook up.

You want to hike to waterfalls or mountains.