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Dotaista

31 M Cape Town, South Africa

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
A little yuppie, a lot nerdy, smart but absent-minded, I work too hard but am an awful procrastinator, I tend to be self-deprecating but am probably deeply arrogant at some level I never notice, I have a quirky, dry and often inappropriate sense of humour that I try to keep under control, and I love few things more than a conversation with an interesting person.

I have a history of long and serious relationships, but I'm trying to keep things simple for a while and just expand my horizons.
What I’m doing with my life
Most of my energy goes into my legal practice, which, thankfully, I quite enjoy. My areas of expertise are in constitutional and human rights law, and I get a surprising variety of clientele.

The rest of the time I try and forget about the law. Yoga, hiking, climbing and diving are all things I enjoy, but I'm equally happy reading (sci-fi/fantasy when I'm feeling lazy, history/economics/current affairs/classics when I'm not), watching tv or sports (Stormers fan!) or playing games on the computer.

As of December 2013, I'm taking a bit of a step back from online dating, just due to my other commitments. I'll still be online from time to time, but please excuse me if I don't respond to any messages.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my voice. They say I sound either intelligent, or gay, or both.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Top 3 of each at the moment: Catch 22, the Lord of the Rings, To Kill a Mockingbird, Fight Club, City of God, Snatch, Community, Arrested Development, Better Off Ted, Alt-J, Florence and the Machine, the Lumineers... And for food I'll just say all the amazing restaurants in Cape Town. And biltong.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order... Wine, music, good food, internet access, travelling the world, and my kindle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Law, South African politics, economics and growth, incentive structures, history, rugby (and any sport in which SA are dominating - Test cricket FTW), e-sports, nerdy memes, how awesome it would be if I was a Jedi, places to get good food and good wine, how not to come across as a creep on online dating sites, whether everyone else on online dating sites are creeps, why I should stop being lazy and go to that yoga class at 6am, and a million, billion other things.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm a bit more inclined to spend my Friday nights in - reading, watching something good, or playing games - than out, but I do love going out, be it to hot new restaurants, funky bars, or whatever. The one thing I don't like is going somewhere where the music is too loud to talk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmmm. How about, I enjoyed Fifty Shades of Grey? No thanks to the writing though.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex