A couple dealbreakers for me, If you smoke, or take any drugs, I simply don't want any of that around my kids or around me.
I should also say I am about 20 pounds heavier then I want to be right now. But that will change soon, as my foot is almost healed up. . . At the beginning of summer I broke my left foot. I didn't wait for it to heal, and was out playing basketball with my kids and a few of their friends. Since I was favoring the broken left foot I rolled the right ankle, sprained it, and pulled my groin. OUCH! Which made me a bit less mobile and so I gained some weight. Almost better now and already trimming down.
OK some some adult things I like to do. WIne tasting! I rarely get drunk so no worries there. Floating the river, skiing, going to plays, and dancing. I admit I suck at dancing, but that doesn't stop me from being the first one out on the floor. I can be a bit of a geek, I taught myself to build and repair computers. I really enjoy all the superhero movies, and anything by Joss Whedon. Also I try to read for about 30 min every night before I go to bed.