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49 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:44am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm easing back into dating after taking several years off. Most of my adult life I've been in relationships and had never taken much of a break.

I strongly believe self-examination is a key to a fulfilling life, so much of my time has been spent on self reflection while I've been single. I am by no means perfect but I do flex my awareness muscles and keep making the box I live in bigger instead of smaller as I grow older. I am a hopeful romantic and always believe that life is better in love.

I'm 48. You can check my drivers license. ;)

As a younger man I made my living as a dancer, after about 16 years I retired but I can honestly say I still have the calves and backside, they never went away. Now, after 4 years of college, I have a career in the health/medical field. Before I started dancing I was a musician so I have always been interested in artistic endeavors. I still enjoy playing standards or jazz on piano especially for a low key party.

I love to exercise and my favorite is getting up in the hills or out of town to hike. I never feel better than when I can clear my head, get my heart pumping and walk in nature. I love working out too, but go through periods where I work hard at it or get burnt out. I'm lucky that I build muscle easily, although sometimes I'm envious of guys that have naturally thin, hard to build-up bodies.

While I value a sense of humor, it's not the most important thing to me. Certainly that spark or sexually chemistry isn't funny. Neither is being deeply compassionate...but don't they feel awesome? I'm usually funniest when I'm not trying and I'm at ease with the person/people I'm with.

I'm looking forward to seeing more of the world and doing more camping in the national parks. I'm a pretty open guy so I love learning about what makes you happy too!
What I’m doing with my life
Loving, working, cooking, hiking, playing music (with my fingers not electronically), watching movies, having stimulating conversation...
I’m really good at
Playing piano
philisophical discussions
being kind
being magnanomous
The first things people usually notice about me
My calves (if they're uncovered)
dark hair and blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Life of Pi, Memoirs of a Geisha, Pride and Predjudice, The Velvet Rage, Me Talk Pretty One Day, A Prayer For Owen Meany, Holy Blood Holy Grail, Last Of The Wine, Autobiography Of A Yogi

Movies: Gaslight, Laura, Gosford Park, Transamerica, Vertigo, The Clock, All About Eve, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Vatel, Joy Luck Club, Enchanted April, Shortbus, Emma, Roman Holiday, Hope Springs, Bridesmades, Rock Of Ages (I was surprised too) and Babette's Feast

Music: Pop, alternatve, 80's, jazz, classical, ambient

TV: Pillars of the Earth, Modern Family, Barefoot Contessa, True Blood, Downton Abbey, Absolutely Fabulous, The Royle Family, French and Saunders, Dexter, Six Feet Under

Food: French, Thai, Indian..almost any kind of food but tend to stay away from pasta, bread, rice and potatoes...unless I am going to exercise heavily.
The six things I could never do without
My new bed
My job
good health
good food
good music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That I'm really just a speck on a swirling tiny planet in a big universe.
Where I'll buy a house
Who I'll end up with and how hot it will be!
On a typical Friday night I am
Walking to a restaurant that is more than A 1/2 hour away.....or going out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You can ask me anything you want when I meet you. It's a promise.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 32–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you feel like we might click and you're somewhat near me!