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  • Ages 30-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here’s a bunch of stuff about me that’s worth knowing:

I moved from northern New Jersey (just outside NYC) to Seattle almost 5 years ago. It took some getting used to; it was like moving to another planet. However I’ve really come to love this city and I’m happy to call it home.
I spent about 10 years working in the independent film world back in New York. I had a lot of great times and I got a lot of good stories out of it. I wrote and directed a documentary that went national and I’m very proud of that. When that life stopped being fun and got to be a hassle, I decided I needed a change of pace so I sold or gave away almost everything I owned, packed up my dog and moved out here. New York City indie filmmaker may sound cooler, but Seattle bartender is the better life (yay health insurance!).

I’ve been single for most of my time here. I’ve made some killer friends and dated a bunch, but nothing really serious, romantically speaking. I guess I needed a lot of alone time. No point in moving 3000 miles if I wasn’t going to work on myself and grow and try and be a better man.

I’m a pretty happy and easy going guy. I tend to have kind of a wicked sense of humor and don’t think I’ve lost my east coast edge (at least not the good parts).

It may be unpopular here in the PNW, but I am not an outdoorsy type. If you want to take me hiking or camping I’m certainly not opposed and I’m sure we’ll have fun, but I’d much rather be catching a movie, hitting happy hour or playing pinball with you.

I’m a little bit of a film geek.

I prefer that our first encounter be a relaxed, t-shirt and jeans kind of thing. Let’s a have a drink, get some dinner or catch a show. I think that just hanging out and talking is the best way to get to know one another. We can get dressed up and fancy later (note: I’m not a fan of suits and ties. I used to have to wear them for work a lot, but now it’s strictly for weddings and funerals).

I dig tattoos, rock ‘n’ roll, scary movies, reading and hanging out with my dog.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a bartender (a job I really love). Sometimes writing, but not enough. Working out. Hitting the pub with friends. Hanging with my dog.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling jokes and stories. Lifting heavy objects.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shave my head daily and my face rarely. My tattoos. My vast t-shirt collection.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Geek Love. Something Wicked This Way Comes.
Movies: Horror Films. The movies of John Carpenter. Frankenstein. Comedies.
Shows: The Simpsons. It's Always Sunny.
Music: The Ramones. Elvis Costello. Willy Nelson. The Misfits. Tom Waits.
Food: Sushi. And nothing beats a good bean burrito!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Boston Terrier.
A good beer.
My genre dvd collection.
A solid bourbon.
Books (and recently reading glasses. Bummer).
Good friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to answer this friggin question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working at the bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cried a little the day Joey Ramone died.
You should message me if
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You have a good sense of humor, want to have some fun, you're laid back and fairly liberal, you're not a bigot; you want to stay up late watching a scary movie, having a beer and making out.