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34 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:36am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I love poetry, fiction, dancing, museums, impromptu picnics that involve cold beer and hot Banh Mi sandwiches, sarcasm and silly jokes, and mixing high and low-brow culture so they can dirty each other up.

I prefer passion to formality, and love meeting people who have unique and intelligent ways of seeing the world.

Lately I've been taking salsa (on 2) lessons, so I'm always on the look out for a new dance partner.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing and learning to sew.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, cooking, dancing, changing bike tires and almost getting hit by vans as I ride my bike around the city.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Long legs and glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Cloud Atlas, Twenty Love Poems and a Song of Despair,The Bluest Eye, The Things They Carried, Lost in the City, Borges: Collected Fictions, Handmaid's Tale, Giovanni's Room, The English Patient, Alice in Wonderland, Drown, Everything Ravaged Everything Burned, This is how You Lose Her, The Master and Margarita, The Tattoo Hunter

Movies : Farinelli, All about my Mother, Amores Perroes, Malcom X, Heathers, Dangerous Liaisons, Carne Tremula, Velvet Goldmine, Sex Lies and Videotape, Wilde, Closer

Music: Peaches, Nina Simone, Jeff Buckley, Prince, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Iggy Pop and the Stooges, David Bowie, The Kills, The xx, The Vandelles, Jesus and Mary Chain, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, Ty Segall, NIN, Cazwell, PJ Harvey, Howlin' Wolf, Bass and Drum of Death, Glass Animals

Shows: Broad City, Archer, 30 Rock, Miss FIsher's Murder Mysteries, Happy Endings, Nashville
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Big black boots, Good beats, Good kissing, Friends, Good Literature, and the ability to feel as if something has set you on fire.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Short stories, the amorphous nature of gender, social justice, feminism, how to dye my hair, and the nature of desire and longing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Checking out a drag show/reading/concert or at home writing, reading and sewing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get weak in the knees for skinny boys in all-black and a leather jacket.
You should message me if
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You wear all black.