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48 Flanders, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:31pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I am an educated confident woman. I value people with integrity, compassion, and intelligence. (In fact I find intelligence very sexy.) I don't play games and tend to be quite forthright, which generally means people either really like me or really don't. I can be playful or serious depending upon the situation, but I prefer being playful and just enjoying down time. I love the water and simple things. The best things in life are pretty simple - sunshine, time spent in good company, cuddling on the couch. I do like life's little pleasures as well, but I don't think that material things should define a person.

I have three wonderful children whom I adore: 22, 19, and 15. Divorced for a few years, I am finally ready to see what's next. I am not quite sure where the journey will take me, but I am certainly learning much on the ride.

I am seeking a friend, a partner- someone who is comfortable in his own skin and happy being himself. I am not good at putting on airs for others and would like the same.

I must say that I enjoy reading the profiles. I am not sure mine is as eloquent as those I have read. I will consider it a work in progress though, which is probably quite apropos since I consider myself a work in progress as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking care of my kids, focusing on my career, renovating my home, planning how to buy that perfect beach front retirement home :-).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a mom ... or at least I hope so.
Writing -- just not profile writing!
My job.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile - I think. But you probably have to ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nicolas Sparks novels & movies, Brave New World, Jekyll & Hyde, Frankenstein.
Movies: Dragonfly, Safe Harbor, Ocean's Eleven.
TV: CSI, NCIS, Old Two and A Half Men, (not a huge tv watcher)
Music: Classic Rock & New Country, Jazz in the right setting. Sirius' Pulse for the drive to work.
Food: Italian, German, Chinese, Tai ... A good steak.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids & family, sunshine, music, friends, hope, passion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hmmm.., lately I am wondering why on-line dating feels like shoe shopping. Don't need anything glitzy or glamorous ... Just want something that fits well, goes with everything 😊 and is worth keeping for a long time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with my kids or friends, perhaps dinner out or a movie in. Don't have set "typical" Friday night routines.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not for revealing on a website, for sure
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are confident, kind, honest, have an open mind and might be ready for a real relationship. Not into games or drama!