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My self-summary
I landed in NYC three years ago after bouncing around the US and the world for the last 12 years. I've had some amazing adventures during that time, including wine tasting in South Africa, a jungle safari in Borneo, romantic dinners in Paris, camping in the desert of Western China, multiple near death experiences on roads in India, and sunbathing on beaches in the Philippines. Though my heart still resides in Southern California, where I grew up, I love the energy, opportunities, and diversity of NYC.

After arriving to NYC, my husband, Drgreyboy, and I began experimenting with non-monogamy, and it has been a big adventure to say the least. We have a vibrant, loving, committed, and open relationship and continue to look for new people to share this experience with.
What I’m doing with my life
Balancing work, family, fun, and this adventurous lifestyle.
I’m really good at
Packing for a trip
Baking cookies
Shoe shopping
Being on top
Wearing dresses
Adventure travel
Never getting lost
Drinking vodka tonics
Throwing a party
Slipping sexy suggestions into a long, boring list of things "I'm really good at"
The first things people usually notice about me
A smile that lights up a room. Unless it's dark, in which case, you'll just notice the sound of my high heels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I love reading all types of fiction, but I have a particular passion for historical novels. The Ethical Slut and Opening Up have been particularly relevant to this new adventure of ours.

Movies: Something fun and lighthearted with a Hollywood ending.

Music: If I can dance to it, I'm in. Pandora pretty much has me figured out.

Food: Spicy and ethnic gets me charged up. I could eat sushi or Pad Thai every day (and, yes, there have been weeks I've done that).
The six things I could never do without
Running in Central Park
Working out in the gym
High heels
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Something fun to do on the weekend
On a typical Friday night I am
A relaxed night in with the kids or a raucous night on the town -- not much in between.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I eat oatmeal every day for breakfast. If you want anything more titillating than that, you'll have to seduce me.
You should message me if
You're as hot and sexy as my amazing husband.
You're comfortable with non-monogamy.
You're interested in making new friends and, if the chemistry is right, exploring a sexual relationship individually or as a couple.