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32 Santa Barbara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–34
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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My self-summary
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A smart, well educated, insightful, sensitive man, seeking new friends, perhaps a partner. I'm also infinitely patient. All of this online stuff is just a way to set up a real life meeting, so if you are interested in knowing more message me and we can chat for a bit.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now, I teach kids. Many of them come from wealthy families that live in the Santa Barbara area, some of them are from working class families and lower middle class families, and a few of them are from families that live in homeless shelters.

I also do Aikido, a non-violent martial art, and play golf. My handicap just went up to 0.8 recently, so I guess that means I have to practice more...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Socializing, golfing, Aikidoing (been doing that since I was 5) and generally being smart about most things. I'm also good at drinking beer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm just a relaxed guy who likes to have conversations. I think I mellowed out a lot after my graduate school experience, which was great in a lot of ways but also really bad for me personally. Most people notice I like to analyze things, perhaps too much? But a lot of people usually enjoy my unique perspective on issues, and I also enjoy theirs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just ask.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cheap but good Mexican food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff no one else cares about, which happened long long ago.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating and drinking with my pals.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like video games.
You should message me if
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If you like piña coladas, and getting caught in the rain. If you're really into yoga, and like the taste of champagne...