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DrScubaChick

52 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 3
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Medicine
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
After a year and a half of patchwork and marginal employment, it looks like the job part of life is settling in! During all of the transitions, my dive travel really suffered! I still haven't resolved that problem, but I'm working on it. I'm currently "jonesing" for a dive trip - Anyone interested?

Anyway, as the title says, I'm a fat chick-- some people might use terms such as BBW, Full figured, Plus Sized, Person of Size, Generously Proportioned, Rubenesque, or some other term meaning Large. I know for some this will be an absolute deal breaker - too bad, so sad - they will miss out on a great heart combined with lots of fun and passion. Take a look at my photos and decide for yourself whether or not I might be your 'cup of tea.' I'm looking to meet some (a?) new friend(s). Ideally someone who might actually be a scuba diver, or at least enjoy talking about diving and looking at underwater photos. (I'm happy to share your interest, too.) Preferably someone somewhat more liberal than Atila the Hun -- although, this MIGHT be negotiable for someone who finds me REALLY attractive.

I'd like to find a long term, or at least ongoing relationship, but I also recognize that some fun dates could be a great way to start.

I am well educated but self identified working class, cute, blonde, and a fat chick who doesn't take herself too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a psychologist. I work with acutely mentally ill adults in a hospital setting. I also work for a cutting edge elder care community where I train new therapists. There's no need to be concerned, I only "therapize" when someone is paying for it. So, no, I'm not going to analyze you and, no, you don't need to 'be careful what you say in front of me' (at least no more than in front of anyone else.) In addition to the day jobs, I also teach part time. So that adds up to 'working alot' -- I wouldn't mind a reason to be distracted! I'm looking to add more 'social' to my life.
I’m really good at
I'm a pretty good cook, a great bargain hunter, a bit of an "animal whisperer" and a fanatical warm water scuba diver. I've been told I'm a good kisser - but, perhaps you should judge for yourself.
The first things people usually notice about me
It probably depends on the person... I imagine either my hair, smile or eyes... or maybe the size of my.... uh, never mind... but, in the right situation it might be the red and black wet suit with the funny looking ears... or, I wonder what you might notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well.... favorite depends a bit on the day... Movies - wide range of interests - action (as long as there isn't too much gratuitous violence - James Bond excepted), documentaries, comedies, romantic comedies. Books -I'm still recovering from the overdose of professional reading during grad school - I enjoy mysteries for escapism. Music -- varied, as long as it isn't too loud... jazz, folk, world, singer - song writer, rock (generally somewhat lighter stuff), some classical, some country. It's a plus if it can be heard in small clubs or coffee houses. Not much for rap, hip-hop, opera. Food - most anything.
The six things I could never do without
Let's see... scuba diving, diet coke, cool breezes, clean sheets, ice cream, reading material, affection, touch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My last dive trip, my next dive trip, editing underwater photos and anything related to scuba diving!! Other common topics include social issues, creativity, and ways to procrastinate household chores.
On a typical Friday night I am
wondering why I didn't make plans earlier in the week. So, with no plans, I focus on laundry, household chores, grading papers and maximizing nap time. Pathetic, I know.... can you save me from myself?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes eat cereal for dinner.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are single, find me attractive and think you might enjoy spending some time with me.