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39 M Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:18pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Officially arrived in Vancouver!
Rented a closet (tiny room downtown)
Time to make some new connections.

I wonder.
I wander
I write.
I wonder.
I wander
I write.
I wonder.

So ya I have only dated women in the past but I am pretty open to connections of all sorts.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to get a book published. Writing another book(maybe a Movie).

Trying to find a writing job.

Volunteered at the fringe and VIFF, and now the writers festival.

Walking a lot.

Sold my car.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sport Psychology

Substitute teaching

Thinking outside the "box".


Helping people see change.

Remaining calm over long car rides. (ask me about this one when we meet).

Confusing myself and others.

Giving back rubs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My super blue eyes and my super curious nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
Gone Girl By G. Flynn
The Fire Witness By Lars Kepler

Blue is the Warmest Color
The Perks of Being a Wall Flower
A Separation
*The Secret in Their Eyes*
A Prophet

The Fall
The Walking Dead

Mumford & Sons
Beth Orton
Sarah M.

Indian / Japanese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
At least Six hours of sleep most of the days of the month.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time wondering "how it all got started & how we ended up in these lives."

What makes people good at intimacy? (vulnerable, sharing, acceptance, positive, close, connection)

Script writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Movie watching.
Most of my better Friday nights start off with a drink with someone interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Anything you are willing to ask.

I will go down on a first date, just ask.

I kissed a boy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to meet up for a drink or coffee and see whether there is a connection.

If you want to show me cheap eats in van.

If you have a job lead or editor/agent who wants to read my book.

If you want to help me transfer(write) my book into final draft.

If you want to play (safe, consensual, and poly friendly).

If you like hanging out by the ocean and want a friend.

If you want to go to any movie (VIFF included) and don't want to go alone.