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45 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:48pm
Middle Eastern
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from med school
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I know The first sentence is important, but I can't think of a good one right now. So here's me in random order:
- I am funny. I just realized this a few years ago.
- I am optimistic and happy by nature.
- I like trying new things (food, destinations, activities) as long as I can take a shower and don't have to pee in the woods.
- I prefer to read things that are properly punctuated.
- I think silver hair and bald head are sexy.
- I sometimes get paged in the middle of the night. It's rare, but it happens.
- I don't believe in anything supernatural. This includes the concept of "soul mate". I think a good relationship needs work and doesn't happen magically. Nor can it be maintained magically. Kind of like six pack abs.
-I'm a New Yorker by choice. Came to the city for a 2-month course, and 2 weeks into it decided I'll never leave. That was 8 years ago. Lived in Toronto for a few years before that, and will give extra points if you can guess my original hometown.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working (and really loving it), traveling, cooking, skiing, swimming, socializing with friends and giving hope.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning vacations.
My job.
Defying stereotypes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I smile a lot. Seems like I can't help it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Gabriel García Márquez, Alba de Céspedes, Romain Rolland. I read many of the classics as a teenager, Hamlet (and had a crush on him for a while), Iliad and Odyssey and so on, and somehow managed to do this while listening to Madonna and Wham.

TV shows that I'm obsessed with: Newsroom and Game of Thrones. TV shows that I watch, but not obsessively: Mad Men, Homeland, Modern Family. Also love all the nerds on the Big Bang Theory. And Frasier re-runs.

Music? Jazz and rock. My new obsession is Preservation Hall Jazz Band. Also anything with a strong violin. And Pink Floyd.

Food? I'm a great cook. The best cook. Feeding people is my hobby. My apartment is where friends gather to watch the Super Bowl, the Oscars, the Grammys and anything else I allow them to while sipping home made margaritas and licking the crumbs off their hors d'oeuvre plates. I'm quite adventurous when it comes to food and will eat anything out of a food truck, excepts for insects.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fairness (is that a "thing"?)
I guess also air and water, for drinking and swimming. And coffee. And caramel flavored ice cream.
A clean, uncluttered place to live in.
I can do without, but really enjoy Sunday afternoon naps.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes sing in the car.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for that elusive man who is brainy but also a little edgy, is kind and responsible but also has a bad boy streak. A scientist with a tattoo sort of person...

I only read messages from profiles that have pictures. Unless you work for CIA or MI6.

P.S. If "Middle-eastern" sounds scary to you rather than exotic, maybe you wanna sit this one out :o)