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45 • Somerville, MA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 24
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Graduated from university
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Dislikes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), LISP (Poorly)
I’m dating Stormsdotter and would like to add a few more ladies to my dance card. She’s bisexual, and we would like to find a lady we can both date.
b) Rewatched Blade Runner, it is always excellent.
c) My tastes are an eclectic mix, including historic music, ambient, goth, dark jazz, and classical.
d) Indian and Japanese are about my favorites. Though I am also a regular at Grendel's in Harvard Sq.
Swords were the last and definitive form of masculine jewelry made, and everything since has been pointless ornamentation that detracts from the overall form.
Ok, something actually private-ish, or, at least, contentious:
Ultimately, I am a gender and racial negativist. The assumption that these qualities are sufficient justification for ideologies of separation and identity ignores basic physical realities about what forms us as people. Socially pre-fab gender and ethnic identities does not inform us about who we are. Not only is the mirror lying to us, but even that is our interpretation of its interpretation of who we are.
A quick word about what I am looking for. First off, I am naturally polyamourous, and would prefer a relationship that works within that dynamic. Beyond that, I am looking for a relationship that will not get to 'marriage' levels of seriousness, but still exists long term. Really want someone to go to the theater with, share food, movies, and evenings with. Also, looking for someone that has something interesting going on in her life that is either similar to or tangential to my interests. I can not sustain a relationship without that, I have tried. The sciences make for the best pillow talk.
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