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Dragonflytj

41 / F / straight / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

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Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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My Self-Summary

I'm a strong woman looking for a stronger, self reliant man...a jack of all trades.

I'm open, honest and blunt, I will tell you truth and how I feel always.

I find it very difficult to communicate and function in a superficial, materialistic society, being "myself" in it always gets me in to trouble, especially at work, I just don't fit into society's norms and rules.

I love nature, camping, and being close to the land. I love herbalism and going out on hikes to identify plants.

I'd rather be alone or with nature instead of a group of people.

The state of economy and our reliance on material things scares me. I feel the need to down size and get "out of dodge" soon.

I could live by the ocean or in a forest near water...I'm just not sure where that is yet.

I'm a deep thinker and tend to be a more serious person...I'd love to meet someone who could help me to see the lighter side of life.

I believe in having a connection to spirit or a universe greater than ourselves is important as well as feeling connected to nature and a few close friends and family.

I am attracted to tall men, non smokers either with longer hair or the shaved head/goatee look...I feel it's important to put out there what you like so there is no confusion out there, and the universe can attract to you what you desire....

What I’m doing with my life

Ultimately I'd like to share my life with someone off the grid. Either near an ocean or in a forest near water. I'd like to live in an earthship or similar structure and live off the land. Somewhere with a temperate climate...not too hot or cold.

It would be cool to RV it across the country to find this place....

I’m really good at

Being too serious!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Into the Wild was good, I recently saw a documentary from "Earth Cinema Circle" on earthships... that is the way to go..

I love pasta and dim sum..

Any herbal book, any naturalist writings, books on spirituality...

Plant Spirit Medicine by Eliot Cowan ...awesome teacher!

Anything by Eckhart Tolle...the present moment is the only place you'll ever be...I need to remember that more often!

Native American music, alternative and classic rock.

The six things I could never do without

Nature, sunsets, the ocean, the forest/medicinal plants, the elements, my parrot and my parents...well 7 things...;)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where in this country should I live to be in the most healing and happy place for myself, with the man I'm meant to share these things with, off the grid....:) and how to find them.

Nature...the ultimate teacher

Spirituality and connection

Herbalism and plant communication.

Truth and illusion.

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually staying in because I generally work on Saturdays.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I wonder sometimes if the need to isolate from society is just a facet of my ego or is it based on my true nature.

You should message me if

You want and know how to build an earthship, are a jack of all trades, live off the grid, feel a deep connection to nature, love camping!

Tall, healthy and a non smoker are my ideals...