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38 Macungie, PA Man


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  • Ages 30–40
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Today – 7:27pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly kosher
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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In today’s rush rush world, I enjoy taking time in my kitchen when I can. I can pull together plenty of dishes with only a handful of minutes, but when I let the brown sugar-cured cutlets steep in broth under a low heat that I raise by touches over hours so that the meat drips with juice when it’s done... you’re mine. Resistance is futile. (I dare you not to hire me as your personal chef)

I know by now you’re hoping that I spend all my time in the kitchen, but I’m sorry to tell you I’m just not domestic enough to spend my whole life in front of the stove. Several times a week I trade the wooden spatula for an ashwood staff and travel to my kung fu school where I’m called Shen Ti’e Lung, Spirit of the Iron Dragon. It grabs me on all sorts of levels: the tradition, the theory, the students and masters, but what I enjoy most about it are the moments when I let go and let the training transform me into a blend of ballet dancer and tiger.
What I’m doing with my life
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I want to write books. Novels. Not for fame and fortune (because books wouldn't be the way to go, would it?), but to shape public awareness. Through allegory and metaphor I want to make people think. Think about what we do to one another, what we could be. I want to pry open shuttered minds and I want to make the good guy cool again. In an age where reality show heroes are those who backstab most effectively, and Gordon Gecko's "Greed is good," still echoes on 30 years after he said it, I want to bring back the notion that intellect, empathy, and selflessness can be traits held by some badass characters who are entertaining and respectable, and not just for the sweater vest wearing "golly gee," crowd.

I've got the first part. The manuscript is written and an editor *really* likes it. Now I need to cut it by 33%. Then we'll see how many minds it can grab...

My gongfu training has shifted to something intense and deep. But since our art is often described as the physical expression of the mind, much of this is mental and meditative training. It's fascinating; it's enlightening; and I'm eager to see where it takes me and what it teaches me, not about martial arts, but about myself.

I've entered a phase where I'm stretching in so many areas of my life in which I've built a solid base. It's pushing me beyond my comfort level, and I'm about to grow to the next level. Lots of hard work right now, with the promise of a brilliant view up on that next rise.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've gotten nice comments on my eyes and my smile, but I'm pretty sure people first notice my dog. But hey :) <- there's me flashing that nice smile at you, so you be the judge.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've had to give up things I didn't expect, and it's taught me I can do without quite a lot. But the one thing I've had throughout my life, and that I'll never surrender, are the ties to the amazing people who call me friend, and sometimes brother despite having different parents. They are fonts of wisdom and inspiration. As one friend said to me recently: "We're never alone. There's just times when we're not in the same town is all."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Story ideas, kung fu, how I'd describe how it feels/looks/sounds/smells in the moment, my friends and what I can do for them.

Especially that last one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some combination of family, friends, fun, and food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A college professor once told me I have a gift for wrting erotica; she said it was my genre.
You should message me if
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If you’re the girl for me, you, like me, have given thought to the kind of relationship you want, and how to build it. And if, like me, you’ve done the work of consciously growing into the sort of person who belongs in such a relationship, I admire your courage; your willingness to take that journey is something I’ll cherish about you.

Here's why you’re cool: you’re happy, compassionate, and reflexively kind. You can’t help being curious and open to the world, learning from it even as you look to make it a better place. You’re bright, funny, well-read, and playful. You can’t help that either. You’re a doer, happy if that means sometimes helping someone else do, but you care enough about yourself to take care of yourself too. Fit, slim please. And you are strong, both in obvious, and secret, ways.

We’ll grow a coupling steeped in passion and compassion, where we share with each other our joys and our discoveries, and develop the kind of quiet, loving comfort where our greatest communication might be in our shared stillness. This is the gift we will give each other, and we both know enough to know that creating this kind of lifelong happiness requires, time, care, nurturing… and the occasional gallon of ice cream.

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