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Dragonscribe

38 Macungie, PA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly kosher
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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In today’s rush rush world, I enjoy taking time in my kitchen when I can. I can pull together plenty of dishes with only a handful of minutes, but when I let the brown sugar-cured cutlets steep in broth under a low heat that I raise by touches over hours so that the meat drips with juice when it’s done... you’re mine. Resistance is futile. (I dare you not to hire me as your personal chef)

I know by now you’re hoping that I spend all my time in the kitchen, but I’m sorry to tell you I’m just not domestic enough to spend my whole life in front of the stove. Several times a week I trade the wooden spatula for an ashwood staff and travel to my kung fu school where I’m called Shen Ti’e Lung, Spirit of the Iron Dragon. It grabs me on all sorts of levels: the tradition, the theory, the students and masters, but what I enjoy most about it are the moments when I let go and let the training transform me into a blend of ballet dancer and tiger.

Another thing that I’ve become fascinated with, and taken up study of, is how men and women understand and misunderstand each other, and how to avoid the kinds of problems other people have. I read so much, in fact, that a friend appealed to me recently when he found his relationship failing. Already eyeing the door, he was on the verge of leaving his fiancé but decided to talk to me first. And talk we did. Several hours, several nights, we talked. A month later, I spoke at their wedding, and in private he credited me with helping him really hear what she was saying, which helped them get through the hard times.
What I’m doing with my life
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I don't write so much as unwrite these days (no that's not a word, but I'm taking creative license here). I've written a book. In fact, I wrote the hell out of it. Too much. It's BIG, and it needs to get smaller. So after work, and working out, and gongfu, and puppy playtime, and maybe dinner, I sit and read through this manuscript and look for anything I can remove. A chapter, a scene, a paragraph, I'll even settle for stripping a dependent clause. It's new to me, but it's clearly a case of addition by subtraction.

My gongfu grandmaster told me recently that he wants to start seeing me daily. So I spend a LOT of time training. But since our art is often described as the physical expression of the mind, much of this is mental and meditative training. It's fascinating; it's enlightening; and I'm eager to see where it takes me and what it teaches me, not about martial arts, but about myself.

I've entered a phase where I'm stretching in so many areas of my life in which I've built a solid base. It's pushing me beyond my comfort level, and I'm about to grow to the next level. Lots of hard work right now, with the promise of a brilliant view up on that next rise.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've gotten nice comments on my eyes and my smile, but I'm pretty sure people first notice my dog. But hey :) <- there's me flashing that nice smile at you, so you be the judge.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've had to give up things I didn't expect, and it's taught me I can do without quite a lot. But the one thing I've had throughout my life, and that I'll never surrender, are the ties to the amazing people who call me friend, and sometimes brother despite having different parents. They are fonts of wisdom and inspiration. As one friend said to me recently: "We're never alone. There's just times when we're not in the same town is all."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Story ideas, kung fu, how I'd describe how it feels/looks/sounds/smells in the moment, my friends and what I can do for them.

Especially that last one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some combination of family, friends, fun, and food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A college professor once told me I have a gift for wrting erotica; she said it was my genre.
You should message me if
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If you’re the girl for me, you, like me, have given thought to the kind of relationship you want, and how to build it. And if, like me, you’ve done the work of consciously growing into the sort of person who belongs in such a relationship, I admire your courage; your willingness to take that journey is something I’ll cherish about you.

Here's why you’re cool: you’re happy, compassionate, and reflexively kind. You can’t help being curious and open to the world, learning from it even as you look to make it a better place. You’re bright, funny, well-read, and playful. You can’t help that either. You’re a doer, happy if that means sometimes helping someone else do, but you care enough about yourself to take care of yourself too. Fit, slim please. And you are strong, both in obvious, and secret, ways.

We’ll grow a coupling steeped in passion and compassion, where we share with each other our joys and our discoveries, and develop the kind of quiet, loving comfort where our greatest communication might be in our shared stillness. This is the gift we will give each other, and we both know enough to know that creating this kind of lifelong happiness requires, time, care, nurturing… and the occasional gallon of ice cream.