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26 Grand Rapids, MI Androgynous, Cis Man

Androgynous, Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 24
Queer, Gay, Bisexual
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Queer ass punk seeks punx ass queerzzz!!

I'm interested in pursuing consensual cuteness and/or debauchery with rad folks of any sex or gender presentation. I've been involved in a polyamorous relationship for about a year with an awesome and inspiring live-in partner. I'm not interested in monogomy or any sort of normative nonsense (hetero- or otherwise). UP DA PUNX, UP DA PUNX, UP DA PUNX!
What I’m doing with my life
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Building things, playing in graveyards at night, picking my banjo, riding my bike, going to meetings, hating everything, going to shows, wrenching at the community bike shop down the street from my house, hanging out with the awesome people and animals I'm living in cooperation with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skipping stones. Booty dancing. Making breakfast. Fixing bikes. Helping kids fix bikes. Repurposing innertubes. Funky drumming. Super Mario Bros.

I'm really bad at time management.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Fabulous nails in spite of filthy hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love existentialism, sci-fi, apocalyptic/dystopian fiction and anarchist literature of all kinds. Recently I've been getting into the science fiction and fantasy worlds of Ursula K. LeGuin. As far as zines go, Strangers in a Tangled Wilderness publishes some really great stuff (The Road to Either Or seriously changed my life). Oryx and Crake by Margaret Atwood and Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison are (maybe) my two favorite novels. Also, Calvin & Hobbes.

My favorite movies are Alien and 101 Dalmations.

I try not to watch too much TV but I do anyway. Mostly Battlestar Galactica, Dark Shadows, Futurama, Star Trek: TNG, Bob's Burgers and the Golden Girls.

I listen to a lot of terrible top 40 music on the radio, but I prefer jazz, funk, pop punk, goth rock, crust punk, black metal, and Appalachian folk. My favorite GR bands right now are Sapphic, Dakhma, Bermudas, and Cemetery Circus.

Some of my favorite foods are dates, almonds, garlic, wild ramps, black beans, asparagus, avocados, brussels sprouts, snap peas, lentils, pickled beets, tofurky, hummus, pesto, licorice tea, breakfast, burritos, and pad thai curry. Oh, and PIZZAAAAAA!!! I really won't hesitate to eat anything that could even loosely be considered food if I'm hungry enough. I love to cook, garden and dumpster dive.

I like to play games too. I really enjoy word games like Scrabble and Bananagrams. Sometimes I play Magic with my roommates. I just recently learned how to play Euchre and I'm pretty excited about it. My preferred video gaming platforms are NES and PC. Some of my favorite NES games include BaseWars, Faxanadu, and Kabuki Quantum Fighter. Thief: The Dark Project, Deus Ex, and System Shock 2 are some of my favorites for PC. I played a lot of Fallout 3 this winter after I realized my meager netbook could actually run it. Portal and Minecraft are pretty cool too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses. Music. A kitchen. A bicycle. A water bottle. A sense of humor.

...a knife helps, too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"What should I eat?" "Where did I put my ____?"
I try not to spend too much time thinking about how hopelessly fucked up everything is and focus on what I can do to improve my life and the lives of those around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unless I have a meeting or there's a show or something, very possibly unaware that it is Friday night. Lately, though, probably at a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm really more like 5'7" and a half.
You should message me if
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You want to. I would especially like to hear from folks who are rad, queer, direct action takers, nerds, music makers, and, most importantly, not jerks (this includes -phobes, rich ppl, cops, the vast majority of dudes, and anyone who identifies as white and answered "Yes" to the question "Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own ethnic background?").

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