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- Ages 22–50
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 2:12pm
- Queer, Gay, Pansexual
- Relationship Type
- 5' 8" (1.73m)
- Body Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Somewhat)
Some pretty basic and consistent goals are to swim, read, practice music, and ride my bike more. I don't have or want a full time job so I'm always looking for new ways to hustle.
I'm really bad at time management.
I don't care that much about movies. Documentaries, mindless comedies, and tasteful and/or campy horror will do. If I had to pick a favorite movie it would be a tie between Alien and 101 Dalmations.
I watch a lot of TV during the colder months. X-Files, Dark Shadows, Call the Midwife, Buffy, Battlestar Galactica, Futurama, Star Trek: TNG, Bob's Burgers, The Golden Girls, Twin Peaks, Adventure Time, etc. etc.
Music is so important to me! I'll dance to whatever's on the radio, but I prefer post-punk, RnB, jazz, funk, pop punk, darkwave, crust punk, hardcore, black metal, hip hop, noise, and Appalachian folk tunes. I can't resist digging through heaps of cheap used records. Some of my favorite Grand Rapids artists include Sapphic, Forever Grey, Dakhma, Pillars of Ash, Bermudas, Cemetery Circus, Dante Cope, and Willie the Kid.
I'll pretty much eat anything if I'm hungry enough, but some of my favorite foods are sweet potatoes, eggs, yougurt, dates, garlic, wild ramps, black beans, tempeh, spinach, asparagus, avocados, brussels sprouts, sauerkraut, blueberries, snap peas, lentils, pickled beets, hummus, licorice tea, breakfast, burritos, breakfast burritos, tofu, somen noodles, and green coconut curry. Oh, and PIZZAAAAAA!!! I love to cook (especially for friends), garden, ferment, and dumpster dive (though most often just for shitty pizza).
I like to play games as well. I really enjoy word games like Scrabble and Bananagrams. Euchre is fun. I just got Boss Monster and that's pretty great. I also live across the street from a basketball court and pretty close to a graveyard that's great for hide and seek and capture the flag. As far as video games go, my preferred platforms are NES and PC. Some of my favorite NES games include BaseWars, Faxanadu, and Kabuki Quantum Fighter. Thief: The Dark Project, Deus Ex, System Shock 2, Portal, and MineCraft are some of my favorites for PC.
I try not to spend too much time thinking about how hopelessly fucked up everything is and focus on what I can do to improve my life and the lives of those around me. Sometimes I fail miserably at this.
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