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Dream_state

29 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This essay more accurately serves as an avatar of projected self image than a triumph of biography, but if you could experience my friendship via webpage I wouldn't have to smell so good all the time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Grinding in the laboratory.

I produce, perform, and promote music and events from a gallery/studio of sorts in Wicker Park. Sometimes I make arts. Sometimes I play lots of Talking Heads songs in a row. Teaching is something I like to do. Learning is something I like better. I curate an experiential art and music series, and try to spend my time researching, exploring, and making things.

Fundamentally, I suppose I'm attempting to apply discretion and mindfulness to my lifestyle and my social interactions, whilst learning to manage my time with intention.

My sleep schedule trends towards erratic. I'm on that 24 hour hustle... don't think I'm weird for creepin' on your profile at 4 in the morning. There's plenty of better reasons than that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
juggling projects. moving/shaking. the engineering of salads. guerrilla audio. getting the lighting just right. finding complicated technical solutions to simple organic problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fashionably late; Retardedly fashionable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Cultural laundry list = a plethora of content with a dearth of context. Nevertheless, I would recommend the following as exceptional.

Books: I think I'll never finish Infinite Jest*. Kurt Vonnegut. Palahniuk. Charles Bukowski. Brothers Karamazov. David Byrne:How Music Works. Mostly been on a non-fiction kick lately. Read the autobiography of Miles Davis! Do it.

Television: Bored to Death. 30 Rock. Twin Peaks. Breaking Bad. Party Down. Louie. Newsroom. Arrested Development. I don't have a TV, but I got that internet

Film: "Her" is the best thing I've seen in a minute. Waking Life. Synecdoche, NY. Broken Flowers. Spring Breakers. Wes Anderson. Stanley Kubrick. Bill Murray. Robert Redford. Tarantino. I like smartypants shit and great acting.

Food: My food choices are more dependent on the moment than any premeditated diet, but lately I've been trying not to vote for meat with my dollar. I've been eating fish and eggs, and will occasionally go for animals that I feel were able to live the life of an animal(i.e. wild caught, humanely slaughtered, actually free range etc.) I will consume meat that would otherwise go to waste, as I'm approaching my loose pescatarianism from an ethical and not health bent, and will never say no to my Italian grandmother's sauce. Sushi, Indian, and Thai are amongst my favorite. Longman & Eagle. Beans. Bahn mi. Srirachaaaaa

Music: I take music seriously like it's my job(it's my job). In recent years my understanding of it's social and functional role has grown to consider the function of a piece, and the context within which it is relevant/appropriate. This means that I like a lot of different things for a lot of different reasons, and that I can appreciate a lot of music I don't necessarily like. This is some music I really do like:

Burial. Boards of Canada. Ifan Dafydd. Maurice Ravel. Broken Social Scene. James Blake. Brad Mehldau. Fela Kuti. Paul Motian. Flying Lotus. Taylor McFerrin. Mulatu Astatke. Com Truise. Miles Davis. Bela Bartok. David Byrne. Gustav Mahler. Of Montreal. Beach Boys. Claude Debussey. Luther Vandross. Lapalux. Death Grips. Brian Eno. Hall and Oates. Radiohead. D'Angelo. Prince. Marvin Gaye. Bill Frisell. Fennesz.

**I must have read enough David Foster Wallace, because I'm footnoting an online dating profile.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Compy
Coffee
Record collection
Some kind of delay pedal
A well curated collection of hot sauces
Callin' Oates, the emergency Hall & Oates hotline (719)26-OATES
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Explorations of purpose, the singularity, societal whoas, fiscal enslavement and the roles of art in past, current and future societies.

Harmonized self interest. The pros and cons of capitalism. Some flavor of the week existential crisis.

Where are my keys?

Is that ringing at 640 or 800hz?

Is it wrong to mashup Skrillex with Steely Dan?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In interesting places with beautiful people. Or locked in the studio, but that's the same thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first cd I ever bought with my own money was the Aqua album with "Barbie Girl" on it.
You should message me if
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You've got soul power.

You think Vonnegut was wrong about semicolons; They're great.

Your profile picture wasn't taken in the Millennium Park "bean".