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55 • Portland, ME • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 45–61
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 7:07am
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
I've been described as honest, kind, caring, understanding, supportive, emotionally available, affectionate, and having a good sense of humor. I have many interests, including going to concerts, plays, fun dinners at home or at interesting restaurants, and enjoyment of nature. I also enjoy great conversations, open and honest communication, spending time with good friends, and just hanging out & relaxing at home sometimes too (maybe Scrabble?). And I add to that a bit of volunteering for a few nonprofit organizations that are doing great work. Past crafty hobbies included doing pottery and a bit of woodworking.
I enjoy simple pleasures & strive for balance, and I think it's important to appreciate each day and all that it brings. I try to focus on the big picture and not get too bogged down in the troubling curve balls that life sometimes throws at us. I’ve been thrown one of them (a health challenge that limits my walking and so I use a walker), but I try to make adjustments and work around it as much as I can.
My hopes are to meet someone who’s confident, creative, intelligent, positive, understanding, and compassionate. I’m hoping she'll share some of my interests but also have different ones too. A great sense of humor and a healthy lifestyle are also high on the list, as are honesty & open communication, and enjoyment of heartfelt affection and romance- all so important as we get to know each other and explore a possible connection further.
In the past I've worked for several nonprofit groups that were doing important work, and now I'm doing some work for a family business (but volunteering for nonprofits too).
music, culture & the arts
the natural world
learning new things
fresh air & the seasons
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