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DresdenDisaster

21 / F / gay / Single

Caseyville, Illinois

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it matters a lot
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am spontaneous, flirtatious, and logical.

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My Self-Summary

I'm a scatterbrain. I love to plan ahead, yet I tend to act on impulses. I'm in college. I love to party, but school is currently my first priority. I'm creative. I love crafts. I quilt, crochet, knit, and try to find creative ways to reuse things. I recycle. There are times when I chatter a lot. Other times I am perfectly content sitting in silence. I'm a bit flirtatious. I can't sit at home every night; I need social interaction. I like drinking. I like games. I especially like drinking games. I look like a very girly girl, yet I'm actually quite the tomboy. I can be very competitive. I love musicals; RENT is my favorite. I actually have a RENT quote tattooed on the top of my foot. I enjoy my life. I think that dwelling on mistakes leads to excess worrying and unnecessary guilt. I try to live without regrets...

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently a senior in college. I'm doing my senior internship at a youth homeless shelter in St. Louis. It's one of the best experiences of my life. I'm majoring in social work and planning to work with inner-city children and adolescents. I'm applying to Americorps, and if I'm accepted I'll be leaving sometime next summer. I'm really hoping that works out. =)

I’m really good at

procrastinating, making long lists of "things to do" and never following through with any of them, rambling, listening, crafty sorts of things, apologizing when I finally realize I'm wrong (though it sometimes takes a while), not sweating the small stuff.

The first things people usually notice about me

+My exceptionally light skin tone.
+My septum ring, if I'm wearing it.
+People are typically very surprised when I tell them I am a lesbian. They tend to continually comment on my femininity.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The Harry Potter series, anything by Torey Hayden, Tipping the Velvet (Sarah Waters), Infidel (Ayaan Hirsi Ali), To Kill a Mockingbird (Harper Lee), anything by Jodi Picoult.

Movies: Girl, Interrupted, RENT, Rocky Horror Picture Show, SLC Punk, Bound

Music: The Dresden Dolls, Otep, Tegan and Sara, Amanda Palmer, , Marilyn Manson, An Horse, Sublime, The Beatles, I could go on and on...

The six things I could never do without

+Friends and Family
+Music
+My art supplies/crafty stuff
+Laughter
+My macbook
+My cell phone

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out partying with my friends!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll admit a lot of things. I'm not easily embarrassed.

You should message me if

-I seem interesting
-You want to talk to me
-You feel like it
-You aren't a stalker or serial killer ;)

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