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36 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English, Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
*I value empathetic people, who can extend themselves outside of technological bubbles.
*I grew up tinkering with machines, and as a result I have a few hobbies that involve making things with my hands.
*I'm an designer/architect currently and get excited when I travel internationally for hospitality projects.
*I enjoy movement, especially outdoor sports, but I found a love for dance in college. This has become a big inspiration in my life.
*I spend a good portion of my life going to the mountains and finding beautiful places to rock climb. I've traveled extensively for this sole purpose and every few years or so I take a sabbatical and travel and climb.
*Regarding my "Available" status. I'm in an open-relationship with a wonderful woman, but we enjoy adding intimacy and love into our lives. I'm looking for fun, mature, confident, emotionally intelligent women, who take life seriously, but not themselves. I love good communicators. Good lovers. And nerdy, artistic types. Being a good dancer is a big plus :-)
Movies: Anything by Wes Anderson or the Coen brothers or Tarantino. There will be Blood... I really love movies, so this category is a bit daunting.
TV: I've never owned a TV, but I like to get into an occasional dark drama (Breaking bad), or design show (project runway).
Music: Andrew Bird, Arcade Fire, The knife, M83, The XX, Wolf Parade, Bon Iver, Milosh, Cut Copy, Fuck Buttons, The Mars volta, Interpol, Hot Chip, The Smiths, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple...and lots of electronic DJ's.
Food: Thai, Indian foods are my favorites.
Music for dancing and cuddling
Climbing trips to beautiful places
Hot springs in the mountains
Really good coffee
driving to the Sierra's to camp & climb
Let me know if you think we might get along, or if you get along with non-monogamous types , or if you wanna do something fun... Or if you like going on adventures, or if you want to be crafty. Or if you want to bake and eat sweets with me. I like sweets.
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