Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*I'm a recovering introvert. I nurture my urge to nest at home, but
I absolutely love being outside and exploring the world.
*I value empathetic people, who can extend themselves outside of
*I grew up tinkering with machines, and as a result I have a few
hobbies that involve making things with my hands.
*I'm an designer/architect currently and get excited when I travel
internationally for hospitality projects.
*I enjoy movement, especially outdoor sports, but I found a love
for dance in college. This has become a big inspiration in my
*I spend a good portion of my life going to the mountains and
finding beautiful places to rock climb. I've traveled extensively
for this sole purpose and every few years or so I take a sabbatical
and travel and climb.
*although not necessary, non-vanilla , slightly kinky types are
*Regarding my "Available" status. I'm in an open-relationship with
a wonderful woman, but we enjoy adding intimacy and love into our
lives. I'm looking for fun, mature, confident, emotionally
intelligent women, who take life seriously, but not themselves. I
love good communicators. Good lovers. And nerdy, artistic types.
Being a good dancer is a big plus :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Climbing and camping in the mountains as much as possible,
traveling, dancing, fire dancing, reading, building things, making
clothes, baking, drinking coffee
EDIT: I just my first house in west oakland! So I'm getting my
hands dirty and building my nest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hugging, Listening & crafting, which is also true of many
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hug people when I first meet them. Warm smile and these cheeks
that my mom gave me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything by Cormac McCarthy, but I especially love Blood
Meridian and All the Pretty Horses. Jonathan Franzen: The
Corrections. A song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones). Catcher in
the Rye, Anything by Jonathan Safran Foer, but I loved Everything
is Illuminated. Catch-22. The Alchemist. Lolita. A Heartbreaking
Work of Staggering Genius. Opening up. Ethical slut...
Movies: Anything by Wes Anderson or the Coen brothers or Tarantino.
There will be Blood... I really love movies, so this category is a
TV: I've never owned a TV, but I like to get into an occasional
dark drama (Breaking bad), or design show (project runway).
Music: Andrew Bird, Arcade Fire, The knife, M83, The XX, Wolf
Parade, Bon Iver, Milosh, Cut Copy, Fuck Buttons, The Mars volta,
Interpol, Hot Chip, The Smiths, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple...and
lots of electronic DJ's.
Food: Thai, Indian foods are my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dinners shared with friends
Music for dancing and cuddling
Climbing trips to beautiful places
Hot springs in the mountains
Really good coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
our beautiful planet. the next trip abroad. moving to Australia.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, or cooking some good food for friends or
driving to the Sierra's to camp & climb
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like being the little spoon a lot more than big spoon. I can't
breathe with your hair in my face! and I just love being held.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Let's be honest. Girls don't really message guys, but you should!
Be Original! Just say 'hi'. It'll probably make my day.
Let me know if you think we might get along, or if you get along
with non-monogamous types , or if you wanna do something fun... Or
if you like going on adventures, or if you want to be crafty. Or if
you want to bake and eat sweets with me. I like sweets.
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.