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Driftopher

35 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:37pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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*I tend to bounce between crafty introvert and exuberant extrovert. I often find interesting ways to challenge my bouts of introversion. I love the natural urge to contract within my home to snuggle, cook, read and be still, yet I still need to release energy and I enjoy fire dancing for audiences or dancing at a show all night long. I'm just as baffled by this swing in temperaments.

*I think before talking and my introverted side has made me a good listener. I like women who can keep up in a conversation, but don't mind relaxing peacefully without talking.

*I grew up tinkering with machines, and as a result I have a few hobbies that involve making things with my hands. Lately I've been into making clothes and furniture.

*I'm an Artist/Architect. Recently I started to get bored with the prospect of only having one career in my life so I've been going back to school to study medicine. My brain is simultaneously excited and pissed off. I really love school, and the process of learning.

*I enjoy movement, especially outdoor sports, but I found a love for dance in college. This has become a big inspiration in my life.

*I spend a good portion of my life going to the mountains and finding beautiful places to rock climb. I've traveled extensively for this sole purpose and every few years or so I take a sabbatical and travel and climb.

*The mountains are my real home, the bay area is just borrowing me. Maybe forever though.

*Regarding my "Available" status. I'm in an open-relationship with a wonderful woman, but we enjoy adding intimacy and love into our lives. I'm looking for fun, mature, confident, emotionally intelligent women, who take life seriously, but not themselves. I love good communicators. Good lovers. And nerdy, artistic types. Being a good dancer is a big plus :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Climbing and camping as much as possible, Dancing, Fire dancing, Reading, Sewing, Baking, Roasting vegetables, Drinking coffee
I work as an architect, but I've also been preparing to re-enter school in the medical field. So, life has been busy with pre-med science classes and volunteering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hugging, Listening to people, maintaining balance in life, drawing things, designing buildings, finding the best campsites, changing a tire, track stands, baking, rock climbing, Dancing until I have nothing left, fire dancing, making clothing
The first things people usually notice about me
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I hug people when I first meet them. Warm smile and these cheeks that my mom gave me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Cormac McCarthy, but I especially love Blood Meridian and All the Pretty Horses. Jonathan Franzen: The Corrections. A song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones). Catcher in the Rye, Anything by Jonathan Safran Foer, but I loved Everything is Illuminated. Catch-22. The Alchemist. Lolita. A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius. Opening up. Ethical slut...
Movies: Anything by Wes Anderson or the Coen brothers or Tarantino. There will be Blood... I really love movies, so this category is a bit daunting.
TV: I've never owned a TV, but I like to get into an occasional dark drama (Breaking bad), or design show (project runway).
Music: Andrew Bird, Arcade Fire, The knife, M83, The XX, Wolf Parade, Bon Iver, Milosh, Cut Copy, Fuck Buttons, The Mars volta, Interpol, Hot Chip, The Smiths, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple...and lots of electronic DJ's.
Food: Thai, Indian foods are my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dinners shared with friends
Music for dancing and cuddling
Climbing trips to beautiful places
Hot springs in the mountains
Really good coffee
Books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
our beautiful planet. the next trip abroad. moving to Australia. good boots.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, or cooking some good food for friends or
driving to the Sierra's to camp & climb
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like being the little spoon a lot more than big spoon. I can't breathe with your hair in my face! and I just love being held.
You should message me if
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Let's be honest. Girls don't really message guys, but you should! Be Original! Just say 'hi'. It'll probably make my day.
Let me know if you think we might get along, or if you get along with non-monogamous types , or if you wanna do something fun... Or if you like going on adventures, or if you want to be crafty. Or if you want to bake and eat sweets with me. I like sweets.