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39 Alexandria, VA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:11am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me…….

The general consensus seems to be I am "awesome". I am smart, funny, kind, caring, passionate, sassy, and modest. Oh and yes a total smart-ass. I am both a total geek and a goddess. I will talk your ear off about any subject and yearn to learn as much as possible. I have an overwhelming knowledge about useless stuff. I embrace my inner geek and am not ashamed.

On the other end of the spectrum, I embrace my inner…ummm… what word to use? Let us just say I am a woman who has a strong since of my self and my needs. I will not apologize for who I am, nor my strong desires.

I am a true chameleon. I am comfortable almost anywhere. We can hang out in jeans and a t-shirt playing video games and dressed to the nines at a gala. Either way I am going to have fun and blossom at either event.

What am I looking for…………….

Someone who makes me laugh and turns me on, someone who likes to be pampered and who likes to pamper. I need a strong person who can handle all the sides of me, and someone who will listen to and value my opinion. INTELLIGENCE IS A TOTAL TURN ON FOR ME!

I am a very open minded and laid back woman. I look at things a little differently than most other women. I love having a door opened for me, and I always thank you when it’s done. I don't expect things, and always show my appreciation when things are done for me. I have never had a person in my life who can say they didn't feel appreciated.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, living, loving, laughing, and spreading the word on the importance of the Oxford comma.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ok besides that, I am really good at making feel people comfortable. I am very much an "empath", like Deana Troy.(See total geek)
Its easy for me to feel, absorb, and reflect the emotions and energy of those around me. It can be exhausting, but an amazing way to connect with humanity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am told very often I have an amazing smile. Something about it which lights up the room when its honest.

I have to say, my son has the same smile and I totally get what they mean now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My reading has increased exponentially in the last year. I love everything from history novels to the classics. My current loves include the Riley Jensen, Guardian series and the Black Dagger Brotherhood series. I mean its all fantasy, action, and girly porn all rolled into one, what’s not to love? The Foundling Series was amazing and I am always looking for new things to read. GOD I LOVE my Kindle.

I love Mel Brook's movies, Princess Bride, anything which makes me laugh, and or cry. Love all the Marvel movies. I will watch almost anything, but I don't do well with horror films.

I used to love watching CSI, NCIS, Family Guy, The big Bang Theory... and the like. Now I must compete with a small and strong willed little man who prefers Spiderman and Phenias and Ferb. I am just glad I really like the Avengers or I would go totally insane. Thanks to Netflix I am all about Dr. Who and Sherlock.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides my son, water, air, food..... in no specific order.... ok there is a specific order of importance and I will let you try and figure it out.
Sex/touch if another human
My phone
My Kindle
Intellegent conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life in general, figuring out how to explain why I am poly to people who have spent their entire lives believing monogamy is the only way there is to love.

Why sites ask questions like this and how I will answer it to sound witty and brillant. I also wonder how it calculates how someone is my enemy. I mean does this indicate we just don't match, or should I expect a knife fight in my future if I get involved with them? And is there a different threat if as the precent changes.... i.e. less than 10% is good, 11-20% -pillow fight, 20% and above "watch my back"?

Also, why is it called “common sense”? Doesn’t seem to be common, I think they need to name it “rare sense” or “unusual sense”.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have a wonderful group of friends and Fridays are our weekly dinner get together. It is a fun time full of foods, laughter, games, wine, and a reminder of how terrific my group of friends are.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Here is a question which has inspired some very strange and obscure responses. I am willing to admit a lot....... just not yet. A girl has to retain some mystery.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like smart, funny, sarcastic, tall women with curves. As a warning to men who are self-conscience about height, I am 5'8 and like to wear heels.

If you are not afraid to be affectionate. If you can start an email to me with something more creative than, "hey wanna..." Use your imagination!

You are ready for an amazing new person in your life. You want an intimate relationship, which comes with the promise of open minded and honest freedom.