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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Space camp
Might want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Swedish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Err, firstly I'm an OkCupid Virgin!! (so help me out here...)
Guess I've been 'on' this site for a little while, but I'd hardly say I'm an active user, & in truth, I've never/ rarely seen anyone that is my kinda Girl...

I've tried to be as honest as poss with the Q's & A's (but hard sometimes as BOTH answers are applicable, yet only 1 can be picked!)
I scooted thru, answering loads of Q's quickly, so don't take anything as an absolute deal-breaker!! Just ask me!

I'm a pro drummer that's played in lots of bands, & been in way too many crazy situations (usually band related!),
- I'd say I've definitely been to the School Of Life,
& have got a few good/ bad/ ugly (but all funny!) stories to tell - campfire or no campfire!

I'm not addicted to anything (except food, sleep & air)
I am confident, but not arrogant (there's a difference!)
I try not to beat around the bush - sod PC-ness - just tell it like it is!!
I know what I'm doing MOST of the time.....but not ALL the time!!!

My influences are very broad - be it music/ food/ holidays/ going out etc
I'm not very fussy & can usually find good/ positive aspects in pretty much everything!
I'm a "pint is half FULL" kinda guy... ;o)

If I think of anything more, I'll be back!

Update: I just looked at my 'Personality' summary, & it kinda leads you to believe that I'm an Extroverted Drug-crazed Pervert(!!?!) that's not driven by Love one jot. NOT true, at all!!
I'm definitely driven by Love - I've had it truly, before...& I really want it again, whether it finds me, or I
So, for the record: OKC Computer: FAIL.
Hopefully that clears that up.
Now, where's my vial of crack & my greased pitbull... ;o)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Drumming my way through life,
Meeting all sorts of crazy people,
Inspiring some,
Getting through the tuff times & various hurdles life throws at you,
& learning from them!
& Of course, doing it all with a big grin on my face! :o)

Searching for 'The One'...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drumming (d'uh!)
Being positive,
Inspiring people,
Communication & talking with fellow Humans!
Raising the vibe in a room,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Smile!
I've been told my teeth & eyes (apparently!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Pretty much ALL movies - Gangster/ Monster/ Life/ Alien/ Crime/ War/ Comedy/ Space/ Relationship/ Cartoon...
Oh, & the ROCKY box set...
Oh, & Girly Rom-Coms, & I cry in Finding Nemo. (I usually cry in most films...)

Mexican........ & Sushi!
But failing that, I'll eat ANYTHING!

Any Rockstar/ Pornstar/ Gangster Auto/Biography
Any book by Dave Courtney (If you know of him, that's cool. If you know him, that's cooler. If you've been to his house, please come to mine...)

I dig anything from Heavy Metal to chilled Folk.
(& everything in between - be it Hip-Hop/ Dance/ DnB/ Hardcore/ Rap/ Country/ Blues/ Folk/ Cross-over/ Ragga/ Reggae etc etc etc)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Rock n' Roll
(that's more than 6, but who cares!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
~ Other peoples stupidity & ignorance, & why they can't see their stupidity & ignorance for themselves, but then, this is what makes them stupid & ignorant!!
(I do also work with a lot of bands, & they're all mad in this business let. me. tell. you...)

~ How to pimp up my flat even more...

~ What the hell am I actually, & in life...!

~ Whether I should mow my lawn...

& Is it cool to have my own jacuzzi, with no-one to share it with... :o(
(I do, & I don't...)

I want to meet this person:
"Girls who glide, need Guys that make them thump..."
(If you know where this quote is from, I'll consider a ring...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With me, there's no such thing as 'typical'...

I could be either:
Playing a show,
Going to a club/ pub,
On my sofa with a bottle of Red/ bottle of Vodka, + the DVD remote
Doing emails,
...but usually, it's a kind of mixture of all of the above!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, in Feb 2009 I was dumped from a 10 year relationship (the day after our 10-yr anniversary - niiiiice!).
It took pretty much all of '09 to get over the shock, pain & horror, & then most of 2010 to recover in general (+ financially - I had to pay all the mortgage too..).

So here we are now, onwards & upwards - let's see what happens...! :o)
I'd say I have a f*cking brilliant life, but no-one to share it with... :o(
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