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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 5
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Dropped out of Post grad
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: Currently seeing someone.

So after seeing some other profiles, I decided to give this thing a try.

I hope to find someone interested in D/s.

For those not in the know D/s stands for Dominance and submission. If you're not in the know, the rest will probably not interest you.

I enjoy being dominant in the bedroom and have a fair amount of experience. Having said that, I have plenty to learn and would like a partner to grow with. In particular I lean more towards the mental side of thing as opposed to the S&M side.

I can certainly enjoy being rough but I'm not into whips or clamps etc. At worst I will use some kind of restraints like handcuffs.

I understand that no D/s relationship can work without trust and communication. I'm NOT looking for someone to push around, simply someone who can appreciate me for who I am.

I'm VERY different outside the bedroom. I'm extremely sweet and laid back. Intelligence and humor are something I treasure. I enjoy exploring NYC (and can occasionally be a bit of an exhibitionist)

I'm happy to provide a photo with a face on request
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working full time at a major cable company trying to climb the corporate ladder. Thinking about grad school...

Can now add "entrepreneur" here =)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Locating good places to grab a bite
I'm an avid reader
Discussing current events
Making people smile
I always have free tickets to the Met or Museum of Natural History!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my hair or my lips. I have recently been informed that I have a nice ass but you are welcome to judge for yourself =p
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love anything by Neil Gaiman, Mike Carey, Alan Moore, Terry Pratchett, Orson Scott Card, George RR Martin, Douglas Adams, Ray Bradbury, Paul Coelho, Kurt Vonnegut, Patrick Rothfuss, Milan Kundera, Haruki Murakami, J.K. Rowling (because let's be honest, we all grew up on Harry Potter) and many more..

As for movies/shows (in no particular order) - Six Degrees of Separation, Life is Beautiful, Keeping the Faith, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Pan's Labyrinth, South Park, Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galatica, Louie, Pulp Fiction, Ip Man, Oldboy, among others.

I'm a huge fan of rock both classic and modern. I especially love The Beatles, Rolling Stones, The Doors, Pink Floyd, Vampire Weekend, Arctic Monkeys, The Black Keys, The Strokes, Muse, and The Fratellis just to name a few. I do however, enjoy listening to other kinds of music, everything from Kanye to RDJ2 (look him up if you don't know him.)

As for food, I'm a huge foodie. I will try just about anything at least once...possibly twice just to be sure. Although I'm not sure I would do Andrew Zimmerman weird, heh. I'm tried everything from deer to ostrich (and then some!) Always willing to try out a new place/cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order -

Good Food
My Iphone
Good conversation
The Internet (or you know, just Reddit)
My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future-it's extremely important to me that I be and always stay financially secure
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's random.

Sometimes I stay in, sometimes I head out. It all depends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a huge romantic

I'm easy like a sunday morning

Any girl who knows how to fry potatoes with mushrooms is an epic win in my book
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have an interest in D/s, experience is not necessary.

You are sweet and affectionate.
You like dresses and stockings as much as or more than jeans
You have a good sense of humor
You enjoy trying new things

Anything else you're curious about, just ask