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28 M Grand Rapids, MI

My Details

Last Online
Apr 20
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm the kind of person who thinks way too hard about what exactly I am. How best can I be summarized? Do I want to be summarized? I admit it probably makes things more convenient for anyone looking here if I give it a try.

I prefer to think of myself as a work in progress. Sometimes the progress might seem a little slow, but it's getting there.

I tend to be the kind of person that you can relax around. I can do the listening or the talking. I'm perfectly capable of having a good time doing the simplest stuff. I'm especially happy if I can be doing things with people I care about like family or friends, but that's probably a given. I am hard to offend, when I do get angry it tends not to last long.

Since I'm pretty laid back I also tend to try and see the humor in things. I like to make others laugh. I probably employ sarcasm and deliberately faulty logic most frequently.

I have a competitive streak so I enjoy playing games of all sorts. That includes anything from board games to sports, so take your pick really.
What I’m doing with my life
Going to school for my degree in English (I want to be an editor in the future) and working to pay for it. Also, hanging out with my friends in my free time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books? The list is long! Fantasy and sci-fi are my usual go too genres, Orson Scott Card, Neil Gaiman, Jim Butcher, Terry Pratchett, Madeline L'Engle, Ursula K. Le Guin, C.S. Lewis, Tolkien, Susanna Clarke, and a ton of other authors I can't remember off hand.

For other fiction Rudyard Kipling, Albert Camus, Tolstoy, G.K. Chesterton, some Hemingway. Steig Larsson's series the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo was awesome.

When I'm in a more serious mood I also enjoy reading some theology and philosophy but I'm really just a dabbling amateur. Yoder, Harvey Cox, C.S. Lewis again, and some others. Walter Wink deserves special mention for convincing me of the correctness of nonviolence.

I like trying lots of different genres and authors.

I'm not a big movie fan, but Lord of the Rings and the Batman series were pretty good.

I don't own a tv or watch it much, it can be fun though.

Mostly for music I'm into classical and metal, bands like Nightwish, Hammerfall, Transylvanian Orchestra, and Apocalyptica. The last two are the best, they combine metal and classical elements to create some awesome music.

As for food I don't hold with having favorites, I will try anything once and most things more. There's very little I've come across that I can't stomach. I've been trying to eat healthier, mostly by eating plenty of rice and more vegetables and fruit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life, my faith and how to improve them.

I'm not too worried about what's going to happen as much as I am about what I'm doing right now. So questions like, "Am I using my time responsibly? Should I really be doing this or that? What kinds of things should I be thinking?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, hanging out with my friends, or just chilling at my house.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been in the church for literally my entire life, my dad is a pastor so it has also had a huge influence on my home life.

It's kind of a weird thing to a lot of people.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating