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37 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:57am
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Leo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from med school
- Rather not say
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
You know that small town John Mellencamp sang of in "Little Pink Houses"? Thats the kinda place I was raised. And, though I have very fond memories of my Kansas upbringing, the truth is that I always longed to escape. So, I scratched and clawed my way through various rungs of higher education until I did just that.
Fast forward eight years. San Francisco has been so good to me. Professionally, I've reached nearly all of my goals. Personally, I've cultivated an incredible group of nutjob, intelligent, severely witty friends. I have no reason to complain.
But, as time goes by, I'm beginning to realize that I need to grow. I'm ready for a relationship but it has to be the right one. And I have no idea how to go about finding it but this is a good start, right?
On a daily basis, though, aren't we all just striving for some kind of balance? I'm still working on that equation but, for me, it involves work, clowning around with friends (yes, clowning), staying physically active and working towards goals. The goals change all the time and vary greatly in immediacy.
Cooking by recipe
Not realizing that a man is interested in me
I have a couple of shows programmed into my DVR: Mad Men, Chelsea Lately, Parks and Rec, 60 Minutes, Downton Abbey (best soap opera ever), Game of Thrones, Homeland. And, yeah, I loved Breaking Bad. Basically, I love to binge on great TV. No shame!
I don't know what I love most about the movie theater: the popcorn or the films - of which I'm easily entertained.
Music is a big deal for me. My references are NPR music, pitchfork, friends, and Spotify. I've gone to Coachella for the past couple of years and I love it. I also catch live shows quite often. I tend to gravitate towards bearded, emotional rock groups but I dabble in pop and dance.
Over the past few years, I've been teaching myself how to cook with mixed results. I love to dine at fabulously opulent restaurants (mostly with a certain group of friends) but I try not to take "foodiness" too seriously.
iPhone (just being honest)
My kitty of 12 years
Friends and family (duh)
My new rescue dog, Flo
A good "burner" at the gym
How can I do my job better?
Should I go to the gym now, later, or not ever?
Lately, I hope my doggie is okay at home while I'm at work.
But, if its been a long week, forget it.
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