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Duchesse2013

43 F Guildford, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English, French

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My self-summary
I find myself in a new chapter in my life....My story...extraneous to today.Happy and whole in my skin and very much an individual who looks up and forwards in her journey.I will share that I am a little wary and some what shy of the online environment but keeping an open mind as one can...

My inner circle would describe me as empowering,fun,an achiever,stylish,sociable,bright,zany,a leader,free thinking and an individual who appreciates and respects life's gems. Someone who knows what she does and does not want.I have a strong mind with vision, high values and principles and very much someone who is resilient and strives to consume as much as life can chuck at her.

Much as i present myself as this super assertive individual to the external world, when it comes to my true inner circle and affairs of "the heart",i am at my happiest to be passive and to take a back seat. A little old fashioned on that note,but love my femininity to shine and on the home front happy to chant the mantra that its a "mans world", much as i am a little guilty of being a weeny bit of a" ball-breaker" in my working world!!!.My biggest weakness...I truly care about people and their feelings(too much...sometimes before myself and hence selfless versus selfish) My profile on here,I feel gives a good reflection of my stronger traits...( minus the sexual element... naturally one is not going to hang their knickers in public!)

Last but not least I take excessive pride to think of myself as very much a lady hence my nickname(I am really of blue blood!).Yes im cautious and selective so looking for friendship initially....and who knows ...never say never .....
What I’m doing with my life
Spinning all the plates to full capacity...home, family, work but for a while now no social life...Mustered up some courage and hence my very recent arrival here...Though if truth be told, it has been a clumsy start learning the online etiquette and a slight baptism of fire but one must keep the faith....
I’m really good at
making people feel good about themselves
being a strong pillar and holding things together in life
being spontaneous
being a loyal and sincere friend
being honest even when its bad.
being passionate..I do tend to get rather excited and the effervescence can rub off in a good way amongst others
making things happen..oh yes ..im a "doer"-no laziness in my bones.
being independant
being brave!!!!
being private...i dont like to put myself on a plate.
speaking my mind but being a diplomat at the same time
being uber thoughtful-Im historically a giver..i cant help it ..its in my genes :)
thinking beyond the surface
ideas and am stimulated and at my best when i get to spend time in the world of creativity
being a tease but in the nicest possible way
having a sense of humour in the face of adversity..."Laughter is tonic for the soul"
being compassionate...God ..for the right people and reasons..i care!
"smiling and waving like the queen" - as you would expect...
The first things people usually notice about me
"strong light eyes,teeth and smile".. EekkkK ....a little cliche !
"standing tall" in personna as well as height
"long legs"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh my!!!..Where do i start?... a great lover of the arts of all capacities..across the spectrum.You would easily find me hanging out at Southbank on a Sunday... and i love to make things when i have the luxury of spare time.

Adventurous tastes in food..especially through my travels.

Music- from all genres depending on my mood

Books...hundreds in my collection fiction and non fiction...have a kindle but nothing like the sensation of turning a page

I am a sensual individual so all of these completely tune into my being.
The six things I could never do without
Pen and paper.
Hairbrush- "One must be well-kempt".
Earl grey teabags and when i push the boat out .its "Lady Grey"
Wellies..love a good stomp in the elements and the breeze in my hair
Vivienne Westwood poster
My huge handbag of guff/stuff that i collect on my rounds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The human race........................
Where?-Why?-When?-Which? Who?-What?-How?
Glorious new blazing horizons.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Winding down and taking a breath before winding up for the weekend's activities....

"Typical" is not a word i like to frequent!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After reading the above...now am i really going to divulge such detail here in this little box?
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-you are open to new friendships
-want some good witty one liners
-interesting and intelligent exchange of dialogue
-have a good sense of humour and can laugh at themselves
-are a true gentleman and have integrity and respect
-consider myself to be very much a "lady" and open minded but on a personal note first intros/offers of quick sexual activities/nature(as flattering as they/good looking you may be may possibly offend at this stage.Quick and "casual sex" are not my key drivers for being on here.Sorry... simply being honest... its not my style .Therefore politely warning those that do indulge that you will send those messages at your own risk !!!
-and most important of all you are yourself and can talk freely and for England,preferably using the Queen's english :)