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Dukedog9

58 Panama City Beach, FL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–62
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in the abundance of the universe, and that wonderful new adventures are out there to be experienced. So I began to think about how I could open myself to this abundance and meet that special someone.

So here goes... I've been divorced for 7 years.

I have a 19-year-old son who lives in Gulf Shores, AL and I disappear from time to time to visit with him. We play a lot of golf together.

Dukedog9 is a tribute to my border collie/black lab named Duke who passed away.

I like intelligent women, humor, theater in all forms, big cities, museums, quiet moments, Alfred Hitchcock movies, great books, playing golf and tennis, working out, sailing, romance, good friends, good bourbon, and good wine. For music I like classic rock, jazz, bluegrass, blues, country, show tunes, Gregorian Chants, and classical guitar and piano.

I've been cooking for over 40 years and I'm pretty good at it. I learned to cook Italian dishes in Naples, Italy.

I don't drink often or very much because there's just no upside to it anymore.

I am an "Officer and a Gentleman", but we may have to compromise a little if you want me to come into your work and carry you off in my Dress Whites. No matter how hard I try, its just not that romantic using a fireman's carry.

My Ideal Match will:

Be at least one year out from her last serious relationship.

Have clear goals and have focus in her life.

Be pretty, and witty, and bright! And feel pity, for any girl who isn't her tonight!

Be quietly, but firmly, spiritual.

Know her own mind, talents, emotions, and foibles - and loves herself anyway.

Be open to a healthier lifestyle that includes less junk food, packaged food, and fast food.

Be willing to share her kitchen and cook with me.

Be active and enjoy exercise.

Be willing to meet me in the middle.

So thank you for taking the time to read this. Hopefully these words have piquéd your interest. If they do, please send me an email and introduce yourself. If not, good luck with your search.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like to be focused and productive reaching the little goals that I set for myself. I'm having a blast being more social and meeting new people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination! I'll explain all about it tomorrow.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I listen to lots of audiobooks since I'm frequently in my car traveling somewhere. I can usually appreciate any movie, but some should be seen on a big screen and almost all others are better in the home sitting on the couch with a special someone. All this being said, I really like cooking and eating food. Food is best when fresh ingredients present a feast to the eyes, nose and mouth (and someone else does the dishes...).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Olive Oil
Basil
Lemons
Water
Sunshine
Moonshine (think astronomy, not distillery)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My son and the choices that he is making right now.
Quantum Entanglement's effects on manifesting reality.
New recipes to cook.
New business ideas for work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either cooking for, or out to dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A vestigial tail - I don't have one, ... anymore. Or do I!?!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like what you've read and would like to know more about me.
You need a golf buddy or you'd like to be more social.
You haven't met a gentleman lately.