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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 22
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Buddhism and laughing about it
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm interested in a future of possibilities: adventure, forbidden pleasures, expedited growth, deep connections. Life can be harsh and unjust, so I'm looking for a genuinely kind, resilient person who always keeps it interesting. You may be savagely funny. You definitely have a depth of character and a generosity of spirit.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm searching for three things in a girlfriend: beauty, wit, and an old soul.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dating, being a good partner, parenting, feeling gratitude, entertaining, playing Merle Haggard on guitar ("just three chords and the truth"), and attracting great people into my life.

Also, most everyone already knows that I am an incredible dancer. But you probably already knew that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My je ne sais quoi.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In our book club this year we've been reading some awesome contemporary literary fiction: Rachel Kushner, Alice Munro, Marylynne Robinson, etc. My non-fiction reading tastes span biography, neuroscience, positive psychology, architecture and literary fiction. I love And I read Slate, The Economist, Aeon Magazine, Foreign Policy and misc. views on the Middle East (Ha'aretz, Daily Star, etc.).

My music collection is extensive, and right now I'm in love w/Daniela Andrade on youtube. Listen to her! She's soooooo good.

I'm an omnivore. Like those people from France.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't need any of it. I could live off the land in Alaska and catch salmon w/my bare hands.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
flow states, plans & adventures, why women are turned off by men that use emojis, whether there is a biological basis for consciousness, how binaural beats work on the mind (for concentration, sleep, relaxation, etc.), what plant medicines like iboga and ayahuasca and peyote can reveal to humanity, what kind of piano teacher I'm going to find, how the Internet is impacting our abilities for long-form thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
if not parenting (half the time), usually doing something cultural (film, theatre, jazz, art) or on a wilderness expedition (Lassen, Sequoia, Lost Coast).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My cooking repertoire is somewhat limited, but I will cook for you and will love cooking for you. Let's go to Kitchen On Fire and take a cooking class together.
You should message me if
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you're a bit of a smart ass (or a major league smart ass), charming, imaginative, really fun, easy-going, kind/real, and have a good heart.

If I'm in a relationship, I will rarely check this site. I am also taking a break from social media. If you feel there could be a good connection, send me a note and I should get an e-mail alert. If I don't respond, please don't take it personally. Best of luck find your person(s).

P.S. In the past, I've not been open to non-monogamous relationships. But I don't want to place any boundary conditions on a relationship. "Mostly" or "strictly" non-monogamous are not necessarily accurate details above. I'm very specific about who I would and wouldn't become involved with. Maybe you can help me understand human connection more and we'll spend less heartache on social mores.