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31 • F • Portland, OR
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Oct 28
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegan
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
Graphic novels: Anything in the Bat family - Batman, Robin, Nightwing, etc. Watchmen, Identity Crisis, Fables.
Movies: Jeux L'enfants, Inception, most Batman related things, Do Comeco Ao Fim, Inglorious Basterds, Take Shelter, Lawless, Serenity, Brick, LOTR, Seeking a Friend for the End of the World, Girl on the Bridge, Amelie, Cool Hand Luke, Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Science of Sleep, Dead Poet's Society, Annie Hall, Wristcutters, Newsies, Griff the Invisible... Christopher Nolan, Rian Johnson, David Lynch, Nicolos Winding Refn, Woody Allen, Stanley Kubrick, Quentin Tarantino, Wes Anderson, David Fincher, Scorsese, Godard... All things Star Trek. Documentaries. Old silent films with Charlie Chaplin, Louise Brooks, Buster Keaton, Greta Garbo, etc.
Music: Tom Waits, Blonde Redhead, Refused, Drive Like Jehu, Lucero, Lightbearer, Billie Holiday, Murder City Devils, Bon Iver, Frank Sinatra, Woody Guthrie, Dead Man's Bones, The National, Godspeed, St. Vincent, Graveyard, Gaslight Anthem, Jeremy Enigk, Lykke Li, Fanfare Ciocarlia, The Knife, The Tallest Man On Earth, Miles Davis, Queen, Red Fang, Yann Tiersen, Gaslight Anthem, A Hawk and a Hacksaw, Beirut, Hans Zimmer, Rodrigo y Gabriela, Patti Smith, James Blake, Shovels and Rope, The Cure, The Black Heart Procession, Fugazi, Edith Piaf, Cat Power, Clara Rockmore, Rocket From the Crypt...
Food: Indian, Thai, sushi, Vietnamese, southern food... Sandwiches! (Who doesn't like an awesome sandwich??) Avocados, artichokes, asparagus... I guess vegetables that start with the letter 'A'? Pumpkin anything.
Edit: I just looked it up, and apparently botanically the avocado is classified as a large berry. Please do forgive the misinformation above.
Beer. Wine: red, Whiskey: neat, Coffee: black (or Vivace lattes in Seattle, because that foam is made from pure magic, I swear it is).
Where do podcasts go in this place? Radiolab, the Ricky Gervais Show, This American Life, Karl Pilkington podcast, The Moth...
So that people will stop asking, yes, I do like some tv shows. Star Trek (OST and TNG), Misfits, Freaks and Geeks, Cosmos, Twin Peaks, Firefly, Adventure Time, Parks and Rec., Arrested Development, Archer, Bored to Death, probably some other stuff I'm forgetting... I'm kind of digging that new show Hannibal so far.
Touch - Kisses, sex, the obvious. Clean sheets/bare legs combo. Getting my hands dirty... paint, pumpkin guts, motor oil, mud...
Sound - Train horns, tent zippers, real belly laughs, white noise to sleep at night, thunderstorms. Music, obviously. Sing-a-longs with friends.
Sight - I think sometimes I make too much eye contact with strangers around me and it makes them uncomfortable. The art of Egon Schiele, Dustin Nguyen, Duane Michals, Gustav Klimt, Danny Lyon, Gian Lorenzo Bernini, Edward Gorey, Jacques Henri Lartigue, Max Ernst... I'm suddenly a little disappointed with myself that there are no women on this list. It is by no means comprehensive, but I am tired now and just want to be done with this.
Taste - Coffee, fresh nectarines from the fruit stand. Salt... skin, tears, the ocean. Tequila with oranges and cinnamon. I've developed a real thing for kale and brussels sprouts lately. Dark chocolate with sea salt. Habaneros and wasabi, I like things that burn.
Ummmm... I really want a dog to wrestle and cuddle with, maybe that for number six. Or a body of water to spend time in/on. Forts, maps, road trips, mason jars full of whiskey, dusty cowboy boots, red lipstick, handwritten letters, the moon, my record player, my typewriters, a porch and a cold beer in summertime, wool socks and giant quilts when it's cold, swing sets, ellipses...
Thinking about changing this to "Hendrick’s gin; tonic; lime; ice cubes; a tumbler; my typewriter." Just because that McSweeney's thing on Raymond Carver starting an okcupid profile was pretty great. Message me if you know about that.
How much I really need to get some kind of book published someday.
Pheromones and the science behind attraction and love.
Why it is that I am still incapable of whistling.
Gender identities, race, privilege, intersectional feminism, sexual politics, patriarchy, anthropology, neuroscience, travel, permaculture, intentional communities, the ocean, the forest, what book to read next, what record to buy next, what recipe to try next, what place to go camping next, pathology, epidemiology, cats.... pretty much just the normal stuff people think about.
Sex. Again, another pretty typical response, but oh so true.
I have fairly irrational fears of blowing up balloons,
popping champagne corks, and dark bathrooms.
Also, I am considering (maybe?) moving out of the PNW next year and have no idea where I would like to go. So if you live in an awesome city and you want to tell me all about why it is so awesome and why I should move there.
Oh, and all kinds of other reasons too, but I'm sure you can figure those out by reading my profile. It is not a requirement that you have a lost cat or live somewhere outside of Portland.
(If you love hockey and regularly watch the games and want someone to do that with/don't mind if I join you and some other folks, please message me. I have no one in this city so far to get excited about hockey with. Especially if you're into the Pens or the 'Hawks. If forced to choose, like when they play each other so very occasionally, I root for the Pens. But I love them both. And I have a bit of a thing for the Stars and the Habs. I don't know, I just reeeeeally love hockey, so much. Bruins and Flyers fans need not apply.)
Oooooo, if you want to go skydiving for a first date! Why the hell not, right? Let's make that happen.
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