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39 M Providence, RI

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:34am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Afrikaans

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi ladies (and lost guy)

Hmmmmmm... I guess I like to think of myself as the strong silent type (but that might not be a fact); Someone who enjoys their own company; Listens, thinks, watches, potentially acts; Calm and kind mostly; Don't mistake this for hermetical, quite social actually, even friendly ;) Definitely open minded.

I work for myself, own my own house, get my kicks from doing the unexpected, wear socks that match and love my mom; I value humility and am drawn to it; Not materialistic (tautology?). I'd rather drive a truck than a sports car but also enjoy nice things: I love that i live near the water, walking my dog to the sound of the sound recharges and grounds me; Taking the boat to dinner adds a little adventure; Getting lost on a motorcycle is not like being lost at all; An over-priced dinner that can keep us guessing is worth every penny; And being active outside rocks my world / LOVE activities: hike, bike, walk, swim anywhere; snowboard, surf, wakeboard and track race motorcycles anywhere possible.

Not trying to be perfect and some might say far from it, but integrity is not negotiable. Old fashioned to a certain degree and always a gentleman. I'm very grateful for the world we share and do my part. When I smile to myself it's my way of thanking the universe. Spiritual, well travelled, surprises, music, creative, last-minute-plans, engineering, bridges, hard working, super handy, mathematical, fit, foodie, healthy, South African, pyromaniac, fool hearted romantic, fearless, a man, old soul, Deepak Chopra'd, silly at times, charming, independent, enthusiastic, extremely capable, very resourceful.

"This is me pretending,
This is all I need.
'Give it all away,
Just to have somewhere to go.
'Give it all away,
Just to have someone to go home to..."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live here while my family lives in South Africa and I'm perusing my goals of international business and a bi-continental life style. Frankly I'm disappointed that I'm not there yet, but with all my blessings, I cant be anything but grateful :))
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Overcoming my "we todd did ness". Staying in the lines when I draw. Not breaking anything when I snowboard or race motorcycles. Paying attention and caring. Building, fixing or resorting almost anything (Finding, fixing, restoring and giving away old, well made toys is an enjoyed pastime). Being positive and finding reasons to be grateful. Sharing. Defending the absent. Defending the bullied *not limited to ladies or humans. Feeding friends ad-lib (or planned) gourmet creations. Coaching pool. Falling (and crashing :/ ) gracefully. Having fun (maybe too good at that). Being a gentleman. Braiding hair. Smiling and laughing. Calling "awkward!"
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmmm, my dog Handsome or my accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
tool, perfect circle, Scarlett Johansson, bbc, npr, mountain man, in bruges, not much box office stuff. Currently reading several books/biographies of untold stories of the Cold War, fascinating how close we came without even knowing it; and if u read between the lines, the forces of nature that saved us. - blah blah blah, as i think about this, these lists seems endless - saving it for small talk :) Fruit, authentic Japanese, all fuel/minimal cruelty.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Trust, cash, romance, trips, skype, loved ones. progression.
And living without Handsome would be horrible
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fact that I'm terrible at this online dating thing, and presume I'm not the only one, and can only hope that you ladies realize that it doesn't reflect who we really are. After all, I have yet to see "awesome emailer and profile writer" in any of your demands/requirements.


If it came down to it, and cannibalism was the only option... Do u think people would taste like their ethnic backgrounds? Mexicans might be spicy? Would black people taste like chicken? White people would def need condiments.


How the fuck does someone get hit by a train???


How much I wish I was exactly like Phil Dumphy.


The We Are The World lyrics & that stuff
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to get outta dodge. Doesn't always happen. Duh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a famous polo player and underwear model.

Oh, I dance :) not very well, but often.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're sexy, smart, fit, fun and KIND - i dont think its too much to ask... (eye of the beholder). And you like to be treated like a lady, my dad taught me well.

A girls gotta have... a sense of style, a touch of class, the ability to run in heels, a spark in her eye and a killer smile. Being a little brave might also prove useful.

Bottom line... It's all about chemistry