I am Bored, Sunburned, and indifferent
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58 / M / Straight / Single
- Last Online
- Jun 30, 2010
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
I am Bored, Sunburned, and indifferent
You don't have to be rich but an education would be nice, graduate school or better. A "mature" woman with little baggage and a valid passport.
I'm also very good at "clocking" trans genders. This is a reference used in that subculture when the ambiguous nature of one's sexual identity is questioned. I've counted about eight within hundred mile radius of me. I've exchanged letters with a few of them. They very from the painfully obvious to the hardly discernible. Indeed, some are easier to spot through the invented female persona then their photos.
There are many men here that would be surprised to learn that their new pen pal is in reality a man! It varies from the absurd man in a cocktail dress to someone struggling to meet the rigorous presurgical requirements for a gender reassignment. None of these men will ever meet. That is not what they're here for. How they're perceived in an online profile will be an indicator of how they're received in public. Their profiles here and other sights are not to meet men. They are testing beds for what their lives will soon be like.
There is one exceptional example that with every other pic, the thought had not crossed my mind., It was taken poolside, it was so exceptional in every other way, I can see why she couldn't resist. She looked small in all the right places, hands, feet, knees. But the glaring sunlight, the sunlight reveals everything. Their, just above the base of the throat, the tell tail but unmistakable scare tissue of a procedure called a "trachea shave" a surgical effort intended to reduce the size of the Adam's apple. It often generates as much scare tissue as reduced and the procedure will warrant repeating. When you catch that single glimpse, everything falls apart
Unfortunately, even with the best examples, there are things that surgeries and all the hormonal therapy money can buy, simply won't change. Anyone with a working knowledge of the human anatomy will "clock" the best. Certainly a good trauma nurse, an Emergency tech, can see them with all the cloths they wish to wear and they can still tell.
In this environment, the most telling of all, simply moving to the next profile. There are certain glaring differences that will immediately remove any doubt.
I went deep into this site looking not so much for a match as at the box of percentages on the right of the page, listing match% friends% enemies%. The farther down the list you go the enemies % rate goes higher and higher. It can get into the eighties! That apparently indicated that these individuals hated over eighty percent of the things about me! It was as appealing as finding the reverse. Someone who liked nearly ninety percent of the things about you! All had one thing in common, religion. They love Jesus even more than their kids! Also Nascar. Although it is a dreadful bore, I've never said anything against Nascar! An astonishing number had little education and their profiles indicated they had been involved in a violent relationship or marriage. Apparently for the Nascar loving, Bible thumping trailer park types, I'm the fucking devil!.
Don't look for who loves you, look at who really hates you. It can make you feel a lot better!
If you're not for the legalization of medical marijuana, or you're a "prohibitionist of any sort, you shouldn't waste another moment here.
This is as good a place as any for this short list and will tell you immediately if you're waisting your valuable time here. If you're a right wing, Republican, antisemitic, bible thumping drug warrior for Jesus, keep moving. These ladies have a long shit list of people and activities that I would have several places on.
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- Ages 45–94
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