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31 M Sacramento, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 9
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Well, lets see. I am an aspiring Computer Science student and self proclaimed geek. I'm a huge fan of Sci-Fi, most notably Star Trek. I spend most of my weekends doing a Live Action Role Playing game called Vampire: The Masquerade, yes I know I pretend to be a Vampire on the weekends, please no Twilight jokes.

I spend my week at the moment surfing the internet, playing World of Warcraft, LARPng and going to school.

Ok now for the disclaimer section. I am in a Polyamourous relationship. What that means is that I have a wife, but am looking for another. My wife's name is Darby and she is also here on okcupid looking for a boyfriend. If you want to check with her feel free, her profile is badnewskindagirl. I am not looking for quick sex, or anything like that. I am looking for a someone that is willing to see me for who I am an willing to give a long-term relationship a real shot. I have a lot of love to give, and I just want to find a girl that is willing to receive it.

I am Intelligent, Funny, and Relaxed
What I’m doing with my life
I have just Graduated from college with two degrees in the Computer Science realm.

I am currently working as an IT help desk guy for a local non-profit health clinic.
I’m really good at
Listening, Playing Drums, LARP and WOW. Those are what I am best at. I believe some of these deserve a better explaination. I don't have any formal training with a Drum set, but have a natural aptitude for playing them. I can not read any sheet music, I just play drums by ear, or by watching videos of others and remembering where to place the sticks when. As for Live Action Role Play, as I stated before I play Vampire: The Masquerade, and i excel at the Political intregue part fo the game. Think the TV show Rome, with fangs.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am a very happy person, with strong opinions and willing to discuss them.

And I have crazy big shoulders
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- First I am Dyslexic, so I don't do a lot of reading, though my Favorite books are Inherit the Stars, Ender's Game, Fight Club and Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas (yes I have read it)

Movies- I am a big fan of scary movies that are complex, Loved the first Saw movie and was disappointed with the rest until I watched the Fourth one.

I also love almost all Science Fiction movies, big fan Star Trek movies, or Star Trek in general. Though I really enjoy Sci-Fi films that make you consider what may happen in the future if things aren't fixed now.

Music- I'm a Rocker, through and through. I prefer stuff that has a message, or shows the Musicians abilities.

TV- Favorite show is easy, Star Trek: Deep Space Nine. I am currently working on collecting the series on DVD. I have started to watch a lot of Nip/Tuck lately as well. Aside from that I watch a lot of smart TV, History and Science channel are two of my favorite channels. I also watch Good Eats religiously, and I do apply that knowledge. So yes, I can cook.
The six things I could never do without
LARP (Live Action Role-Play)
On a typical Friday night I am
LARPing, Vampire the Masquerade in One World By Night. I know, i know, I am a huge geek, but I love it and am not ashamed to say so.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are not scared off by the fact that I have a wife, or that I am a complete geek.