HI! Im DustinWayne, theres no specific way to define me because im alittle bit of everything and like everyone i change a bit from time to time. I like to experience just about anything i can in life, openmindedly. Im cautious and dont get myself into bad situations cause i dont like trouble.
One of the most ovious things about me is how much i change my looks, im a stylist and i really enjoy changing the way i look. Sometimes im pretty funky and sometimes its pretty plain n laid back, its always tasteful tho i think, theres a fine like between pulling a look off, and not, but then again its really all in a matter of opinion, so expect that from me.lol

For the most part im a super outgoing person and i like to be dorky and spontaneous just like everyone else who has a profile on the internet.lol no really tho, i really am a trip sometimes, ive never been around anyone who wasnt in the slightest, entertained. Im a lil nuts sometimes, in a fun way tho, not like "someone lock that dude up". Im not out for attention or anything like that, i just really enjoy being rediculous sometimes, i always think im being obnoxious, but nobody every really thinks i cross the line, so im glad i get it, got it? good. lol

I have a voice recorder that i love making all kindas of recordings on and then sending voicenotes to people i care about for a good laugh or to make them feel good throughout the day, sometimes i just randomly send them to a number i dont know either hoping i made some sort of small difference in the world, i beleive that nobody as a single person can change the world, but we can all make a dent! One of my best friends taught me that.

Im a left handed gemini, im an artist of MANY mediums, Im a father to a 3 yr old lil cutie pie Ma(kenna-roo) Carolyne. I love family and besides my daughter, my friends are most important to me in life.

Im a stylist and the Artistic Director for a[DustinWayne *EmeA]production, ive done two Runway Hair/Fashion Shows(one at the St. Paul RiverCentre, and one at Ogaras Garage Irish Pub) putting together every detail from making the clothing, doing the hair/makeup, lighting, choreography, making the music etc. and I plan on doing more shows. My main goal is to get as far up in the beauty industry as i can and id like to build my own IMAGE/NAME: DustinWayne ofcoarse, becoming the next PAUL MITCHELL like such with my own product line and my own demonstrations traveling around doing runway shows and platform work. Some days im not sure if thats really what i want tho, if i wanna be that demanded, or if i just want a more simple life making just enough to support myself, the more i think about it tho, the more i realize my feelings wont be hurt if i dont make it that big as long as im happy and people around me are happy.

By Hobby im a tattoo artist, a photographer, a graphic designer(went to the Art Institute International MN or a lil while to learn what i needed to know, then split cause that school is far too pricey), i write(went to the professional career development institute) for childrens literature, I break alot of rules when i write and i really have no intensions on being published. I love singing more than anything ive ever done, i dont think im great but i try for my own release. I try anything i can attempt to learn except for my one weakness, CARS, im a good driver and i love um, but i know nothing about whats under the hood and im not sure whats goin on in the trunk either cause its always packed with things i need for when im out camping or exploring or whatever i decided to go do. lol my car is my main bedroom i guess you could say.
As much as i do, i dont get paid nearly enough for it, yet! Its exauhsting, but i know it will eventually pay off, and when i get down about it, everyone around me constantly reminds me how far im gonna make it eventually. I AM pretty broke and struggling, but i keep moving forward cause i know someday ill be able to finacially support myself.
I live with my parents while building a cliental and trying to get established in the salon, i dont like living at home but i appreciate that my parents help me out while my journey continues its slow path forward.

Listening to music in my car is one of my favorite things to do.

Im not really the dating type, a total hopeless romantic kinda guy, but i must admit my life is kinda lonely for it. Ive never been in a relationship oor been sexually active with a guy before, and Ive only been in a relationship with one girl for about 5 yrs that ended going on about a year. I think im ready to casually date and just see whats out there and meet some great people, and probably even some not so great people.lol Id like to try a relationship with a guy because its something new and i am interested in that, but i dont necessarily know how comfortable i am with it and or how long it would last. My parents really arent supportive with homosexuality and they really dont get who i am or what im about with alot of things, so really i leave them out unless they ask, its just easier that way. (Maybe they'll read my profile and have a lil bit better understanding of me.lol) Id probably keep a relationship with a guy pretty personal for awhile. As far as a girl goes, I like a girl that is fairly innocent and is not(for the lack of better words, sorry) a bitch. Im not the kind of guy who NEEDS someone, but WANTS someone to SHARE things with, and wants alil companionship. I consider myself Bi, but im not really sure exactly what that means about myself because im pretty inexperienced. I know im not gay, but i know im not straight. Just kinda whatever.
Sex isnt my main thing on my to-do list, I like it but i can do without.

I just like people and i sorta forget that theres guys and then theres girls. Anatomy has way to many dictated standards and stereotypes and it really bothers me that we cant just be ourselves, instead boys do what boys are known to do, and girls do what girls are known to do, NO... if i enjoy it and its not hurting nobody, then im gonna do it. i think thats pretty fair!?! I balance out the masc. n fem. pretty well i think. Im more comfortable around women then men because i think women are more comforable with themselves than most men. Women just be, in my experience MOST MEN ACT LIKE MEN and that irritates me because when your around a group a men who are all "being men" around eachother, it just makes me uncomfortable to see the showmanship. Someone once told me im too gay for the straight, and too straight for the gay. lol OK i guess. ha

Im a pretty fun person to be around and people often really look up to me. I rarely ever get mad about things or at people, I do occasionally get disappointed with people when i think they have more potential then they are leading on, but i dont handle it dramatically because i dont like drama and its just simply not my business, if someone asks my for advice im honest with what i think is best.

My biggest set back of all time is anxiety. Unfortunately no matter how comfortable i am with myself, i have days where i wake up afraid of the world it feels like, usually im just quiet and alot less sociable. I dont think it gets in the way noticably to other people, but I oviously notice it myself and i really dont that about myself.

Im not on here to find a hook up, but someone whos got something to invest, maybe thats just a great friendship investment, or maybe something more. im open, but im not desperate, i have my own personal standards but i dont think im better than anyone either.

I have great intentions with my relationships and my health, i think about healthy choices all the time, but could really use someone to feed off of and kinda follow there habbits or at least be reminded of that im happier when im staying on track, i tend to slack alil when im around others who slack ALOT.

I LOVE making music, but its a very personal thing for me and i dont like to make myself vulnerable to many people that way. On the rariety that i drink, youll notice vulnerability is my best friend. ha I usually let myself pretty vulnerable to the people im closest to.

I LOVE playing my harmonica, wish I had a really nice one tho. Mine works.

I have only one real insecurity and that is my dermatitis. Its nothin major, dry skin but it kinda grosses me out which makes me afraid it will gross others out too. Its really not bad tho.
...OH and im slightly insecure that im gonna be alone the rest of my life, which isnt the worst thing in the world but i think I would feel better to have someone i really connect with to share things with. Its not a make or break for my happiness.
Theres so much to say but im gonna leave some mystery...

Right now im honestly just trying to get by. Im workin in a salon trying to build a cliental, while doing tattooing, graphic design and photography on the side. Ive been working on a lifestyle change since april 1st 09 and have lost 80 lbs since then and still workin on it. Im much happier with myself. I try to balance my life with a healthy mix of responsibility and fun, im looking for a special someone, whos a caring person, whos alittle bit of everything as well.. the main thing that really turns me off about people is when they claim to be open minded, but really are so open minded that they closed again, instead they really just gained a different view point. In my eyes that dont make you openminded, open minded is really more about acceptance of things your not used to, or being heartfelt ready for almost anything, theres always more than one perspective and thats HUGE if you understand that.
Im really not up for drama or trouble or any of that negative stuff. I see alot of it around me with most of society and i do an amazing job at keeping myself out of it i must say.
I wanna share my life with someone who wants to share theirs once in awhile and see where it goes and what it might develop into. who knows right!?! I really really really dont want one night stands or someone to act like they like me until they get what they want, so please dont do that to me cause i trust people too much sometimes and id be super pissed if that happend. I see that happen alot to friends. lol

ha, people always tell me im good at everything lol but that sounds to me horribly braggish, to say that. Im good at alot of things, ive just found my interests thats all. Im good at most things i put effort at, I like things to be the best i can make um, and im hard on myself for it, and my downfall is that I can be lazy at times which can affect the results of my work. I have alot of weird random hobbies that just takes getting to know me to really understand about me, it really quite endless, for example i might be standing in the kitchen and out of nowhere Ill bust out three big butcher knives and start juggling them while waiting for the microwave to beep!
I like to learn as much as i can and i often move on from one hobby to another and later go back to it again depending on my mood, season, and surroundings. lol

my smile, my laugh when you really get me rolling, OMG EVEN I THINK ITS HALARIOUS! How incredibly easy it is to get along with me. People really open up to me probably because im pretty open with them. Im usually the ice breaker with talking about issues most people wouldnt bring up openly, but i think the truth really does set you free and it feels good to get it all out in the open i guess so i just talk about it. im not obnoxious about it tho either. i cant tell what most people are comfortable with hearing and i dont like tp disrespect people. lol

i pretty much never read story books, i read alot of informational type things but im not much for stories. I dont watch much tv or movies either, i like tv, i like movies, but i just usually find other things to do. I very much like watching documentaries and theres a show late at night on about interesting places and people in MN where they interview them, I LOVE THAT SHOW! lol
FOOD! ok, well, i used to have a passionate relationship with food, i ran to it when i was happy, nervous, sad, depressed, i ran to it for everything, not only that but i ate til i was so stuff id throw up. kinda sad, but in april something im my life happend(not sure exactly what that was) and i just grabbed control and decided that wasnt who i wanted to be anymore, now im 80 lbs lighter and still workin on it. I love working out, but not in public or in front of people.
I like many kinds of food, mexican being my fav. I love soups and wraps, the world wouldnt be the same with out some fresh fruit, it is indeed my weakness. :)
MUSIC! I listen to anything, really... and i usually like it. my favorite kind of music is the music that we'll never get back, like the everything from 2000 and back. lol I think music really changed since then some for the better some for the worse. My favorite music changes by the day and by the mood, sometimes i love gettin down and crazy to some 80s rock like guns n roses or meatloaf.lol other times i drive around listening to disney oundtracks and enya. You really cant hurt my ears with any kind of music, i take it all for whats its worth. That being said, ive heard some underground rap thats just really NOT GOOD, but im sure that can be said about any kind of music. The lyrics drive me nuts with grungy ganster rap and when i hear it i feel my IQ plumitting to hell.lol really tho ill listen to it anywho.

Im not really sure what i NEED, besides the ability to keep learning, it keeps me young, focused, happy and interested in life. It keeps me appreciating things and not getting bored, i dont like being bored. i guess i could say i need that.

Then theres the basics...
food
water
family/friends
art supplies
my car
music

the future, how i cant wait to have my own little house with this spectacular design inside and out, it'll be like no other. My house and my family will be my ultimate artpeice to put together, only then i think will i truely be grown into an my own individual and im more excited about that than life itself. a place to call my own and i think about it a least a few times daily.

how other people percieve me. In a sense I dont care about what other people think of me, meaning that Im still gonna do what i enjoy and not hold back because someone else dont like it. But i do think about how my actions might affect others, and i do care about what people think of me because i dont like to be percieved as something im not.

I also spend a ton of time thinking about concepts, new concepts, old concepts, my concepts others concepts on all sorts of issues and topics and ideas, mostly for art, but i analize(sp?) everything.

I spend WAY too much time thinking ahead, infact i used to be really bad about it then someone told me something that really made me think, "If you spend all your time looking ahead, youll never have nothing to look back on." ...I just wanted things to come together for me, be grown up, and be able to take care of myself, and my daughter. Now ive realized i can still do that but I need to have some fun too. I work alot, ive got things i could improve but overall im doing fine.

I also spend alot of time thinking about other people i care about, and some times people i just come across in public while out doing something. I like to imagine what there life might be like by the short incounter i had with them.

Right now im thinking about, whether anyone is actually even going to read my profile and whether or not i might actually meet someone, hoping i do cause im convinced there isnt someone out there for me and i wont just sleep with anyone to find out. I think alot of the reason why i cant find anyone is because im overweight, i think its easier for overweight women to find someone than it is for an overweight guy. i dont know, maybe im wrong... maybe im just not that interesting,lololololol i find that hard to beleive. lol ok now im rambling...

workin til 7pm, then i pick up my daughter from her moms and head to home to grandmas house, hang out with my fam til bed time, then go to work sat morn from 9 til 3. My fridays are not a social day for me, frequently ill have morning coffee with two of my best friends Mariann(Emea) and Heather where we play weekly catch up on our work, social, and family lives.

really, you really wanna know, cause im pretty open. well lets see here, One of the last times i drank(in april) i passed out, some friends pranked me and put flour and eggs all over my body including my a$$ crack.lol It triggered a reaction with my body and now i have a dermatitis outbreak(dry flaky skin) on my a$$, my ears, muh genital area and anywhere else the flour got on me, it breaks out at occasional times and im super embarrassed about it, but i find it easier to talk about it, then to try and hide it. NOT a good experience tho, and its costed me alot of money to treat(and no its not contageous lol).

I had to have my right testicle removed when i was young. lol (you asked for it, well at least you didnt stop yourself from reading it.lol)

I few weeks ago I got inspired by a tyra banks show "gay for pay" and decided to try working as a webcam PORNOist (im not a porn star lol) on a europian based adult site for reasurrance that nobody i knew would come across it. The likelyhood was slim to non so i gave it a shot and I did two solo masterbation live videos but decided that was NOT for me even tho the money was pretty good for the 27 mins.

On a greater-moral note, i used to be a clown and do kids birthday parties where id juggle torches and sculpt balloons and all those goofy things clowns do.lol i hate admitting that, yet i still do cause everyone once in awhile the pictures pop up and i gotta explain it anywho. lol

you are up for making a new friendship or something new. Dont be afraid to write, i think about how nervous i get to write people, a fear of rejection kinda thing and then i realize that it really dont matter. Im not a rejecting person, i might not sleep with you, but im always a friend. :)