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28 M Oakland, CA

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
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Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm often caught getting stoked with kids about things like snails or boogers and chatting with older people about life.

I cherish communication, honesty, and reflection. I'm also looking for insight on building alternatives to oppressive institutions...i.e. capitalism, white supremacy, patriarchy, heteronormativity, etc. I actively seek to be a part of contemporary efforts toward Social and Environmental Justice.

I also draw and paint a bit. I like talking with movie nerds about movies, theater nerds about theater, forestry nerds about trees etc. I like hiking, biking, yoga, sky diving, running and stuff...but I'm not Iron-man about any of it.

ART: dusty_wayne on instagram
What I’m doing with my life
Reading, talking, listening, drawing, painting, and teaching.

I'm teaching sociology at community college, working with folks with learning disabilities in a charter school, working with a great groups that you should check out:, and contemplating a life as a radical high school teacher. I'm generally having fun with my 7 housemates as we guide our collective ship toward a place where needs are taken seriously. Big lavish hippy meals and hanging with my twin brother.

Last year I took an 8-month trip through Ecuador, Colombia (2 months), The Caribbean, Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand and LAOPDR. It is still with me.

I'm also eating plenty of garlic and spicy stuff.
I’m really good at
I'm an animated story-teller, supposedly...and I'd like to think that I'll be good at teaching someday.
The first things people usually notice about me
My housemates said: My genuine, open and interested approach to life and people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: So many books...critical theory and other folks such as Angela Davis, bell hooks, Andrea Smith, (Feeling a HUGE urge to name-drop a ton of fancy pants theorists and prison memoirs here...but I hope you get the point). I also love literature like: White Noise, Catch 22, Notes from Underground, The God of Small Things, Zin and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Sartre's plays, The Road, Chekov, Tolstoy.

Academic Articles.

Movies: Easy Rider, Raging Bull, There Will Be Blood, Taxi Driver, Lost in Translation, Bottle Rocket, China Town, The Graduate, Eraserhead... Documentaries! The Black Power Mixtapes...

Music: Punk and post-punk (The Sreamers, Rudimentary Peni, The Dead Boys, Joy Division). indie stuff (Grimes, Arcade Fire, The Smiths), thrash or noise (Melt Banana, Spazz, Limp Wrist), hip hop (Dead Prez, Tupac), jazz (Monk, Davis, Mingus) and: The Talking Heads, Devo, Bon Iver, Dinah Washington, Sigur Ros, Beach House, Lightning Hopkins, The Knife, Deerhunter, Elton John, Slayer, Grandaddy....Feist (yeah, really, Feist).

Food: Good food that's veggie or vegan. Love cookin'
The six things I could never do without
Other people, engaging events, exercise, fun, art, coffee, books, reflection, post-college study groups, production, destruction, refreshing early mornings, dense movies...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Social theory, art stuff, big questions, small questions, life plans, funny-good-times, depressing-bad-times, the future, the past...
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a set schedule but love artsy fun good dancing times whenever...and I love sleeping early for good mornings too.

I don't really drink but love to go out.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
My friends who identify as "Girls who like guys" have shown me their crazy-full message inboxes. So, I hesitate to send messages to everyone I find intriguing. If I don't send a message and you think we would mesh-up, please feel free to send something.

I'm into doing something interesting, taking a walk, visiting Albany Bulb, that amazing cemetery, the Lake, etc.

Also, we could be friends, like, for real. If you're a student of mine, let's be facebook buddies.