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Dutypaid13

58 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 40–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:11pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm looking to find again what I once had - a romance / friendship / relationship with someone who is confident, smart, attractive, self-sufficient, sexy, intellectual when necessary and fun. I'd like to meet a woman who is independent, smart, caring, wise and who will become my best friend. If she enjoys sports - a weekend golfer would be great and/or someone who is fine with my watching Yankees games when I come home from work and does not feel that she is competing for my attention that would be a bonus but not necessary. I am very adaptable. If I'm in a relationship you will not doubt my sincerity, love and commitment.. I think it's important to have a career that challenges you - not just to keep you busy but more importantly to keep you motivated and engaged in your life. If you're politically aware I would find that an attractive trait and we do not need to agree on politics. I live on the Upper West Side and I have two children, one a college grad now living in SF and my son graduated college in 2013 and now works in TV as an editor which was his major. I play golf early Saturday and Sunday mornings when the weather permits and golf is a part of my weekend social life from March into November. Because I play so early I always have a big portion of my weekend days available too. I enjoy movies (new and classic) in most genres. I'm an avid reader rotating from fiction to a biography to a historical book. I also love to watch baseball, football and golf. Going out for a meal is always a pleasure but I'd also like to stay home and cook a meal for you or hang out and chat, watch a movie or TV show.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a former world traveler - I was a VP Intl. in the fashion industry for 15 years which allowed me to travel regularly all over the world especially to Europe and Asia. I've been an Executive Recruiter in the fashion industry since the beginning of 2005 and I love my "new" career. I still enjoy traveling and it would be amazing to have a new partner to travel together with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sales, talking, motivating others, politics, listening, caring, sometimes golf and watching sports! I consider myself to be insightful, aware and engaged in my life and would want to be engaged in your life too.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I honestly don't know? What did you notice about me first? I'm outgoing, friendly, chatty and high energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite TV shows are Homeland, Curb, Bojack Horseman, Louie, South Park, Nurse Jackie, Rachel Maddow, Real Time, Sunday morning political shows (I'm big on politics in general). My favorite movie all-time is The Best Years of our Lives (Best Picture 1946 and very intense) and I love all sorts of film genres especially old films that are period pieces.

I like reading suspense novels, biographies and books about politics.

I really enjoy French, Italian, American, Steak Houses, Sushi, Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Pizza, Sweets and experimenting with food. A nice bottle of wine, a glass of port after dinner are always nice too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children
My dog
The Yankees
Golf
Vacations
My job
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my personal life, my work, sports, politics, my children and that I would really like to get involved with a terrific woman to spend my life and time with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If it's golf season probably not staying up too late since I play early mornings on the weekend. Other times I'm happy at home or I truly enjoy going out for a nice meal, movie, a drink
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Moving out due to my divorce several years ago and moving into my new apartment is the first time in my life that I've ever lived alone. I went from home to college to roommates to girl friends to my wife and now it's me and my dog.
You should message me if
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You're interested in meeting a sincere, smart, ambitious, well rounded man. I'd enjoy meeting women who are open to seeing if we're a match and are willing to meet for a drink or something similar.