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30 M Birmingham, AL

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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
laid back old school gentleman. I still follow the guidelines of pay for the first dinner, open doors, treat women with respect, and other codes of conduct that society has forgotten as of late. I also believe the art of chivalry isn't dead just not appreciated like it should be. I might add more to this when I feel like brainstorming at midnight like I normally do. Update: have been getting back in the gym to shed a few pounds. Really happy with the results and I'm getting closer to my goal everyday. (Well 45lbs later I feel pretty damn show it too, purple dress shirt was the hefty me and blue stripes is the new and improved me).

***also please read the section "you should message me if" because I really think it needs to be expressed as a important side note.***
What I’m doing with my life
working the 8-5 grind at BBVA Compass as a loans specialist for our commercial division
I’m really good at
cooking- it has become something I enjoy a lot and hosting for games has become a norm within my friends group.

general sports, I'm certainly not amazing but I pick up on every sport fairly quick and have never struggled with them.
The first things people usually notice about me
so the best compliment I've received on here is "I have a genuine smile and seem like a nice guy." --this is just awesome and made my day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: scifi/fantasy are the norm

movies: see above + action in general.

music: kill it kid, atlas genius, nico vega, fitz and the tantrums, silversun pickups, them crooked vultures, thrice, company of thieves, my Jerusalem, queen, U2 (first 4 albums), Ryan Adams, Of monsters and men, butch walker and the black widows, yeah yeah yeahs, foxy shazam, dead Sara, the pass, the Silas, howling bells, x ambassadors, brand new, sleeper agent, the dears, mother mother, Hugo, this list continues to grow...send me a message and we can talk spotify lists and what not.

food holds a near and dear place for me. nothing is more entertaining and fun than grilling out for friends. favorites are: ribs with my own homemade from scratch sauce, Boston butts for BBQ, burgers, chicken, and steaks! favorite dishes outside of grilled foods are Mexican, Japanese (no sushi), Chinese, home grown southern foods and some random stuff like beef noodle bowls from Indian restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
hmm now that I've had a while to rethink this I will omit the norm and go for off the wall:

a nice tool set
a nice lounge jacket and matching house shoes
a record player with my growing collection of vinyls
amazon the website
a smoker/grill
eyesight... seriously everybody takes this for granted and everything would be a pain in the ass otherwise. much respect for the people who are without it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a little bit of everything. let's be honest no one really sits around and goes "I'm going to just think about _______ for a while" it's always spur of the moment and might relate to what I'm doing or might just be random as hell.
On a typical Friday night I am
avoiding clubs, creating hang out days with friends, meeting up with said friends at my new personal "cheers" location (if you get this reference you are amazing and should join in).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love some mint chocolate chip ice cream.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Well that's simple, you like what you've read and can tolerate what you've seen. I apologize in advance, if I do not respond I am not interested. We are mostly adults here so let's be realistic and not psychotic stalkers please. Lastly I don't do drama, don't have the time for it and will not even remotely accommodate it or placate it for anyone. You don't have to be perfect but don't drag me into your own personal hellish version of wonderland because you want to have a playmate. Sorry for the rant but things like this need to be upfront and understood. Otherwise adieu for now ladies.