35 Pinckneyville, IL
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My self-summary
I've just recently lost a loved one, and I'm still mourning her loss. If you have messaged me recently, I'm sorry for not replying. My heart just doesn't want to know relief and happiness right now. I need to focus on rebuilding my life so that maybe one day I'll be a bachelor with means.
What I’m doing with my life
Being with and caring for someone I love, but is slipping away from me. 95% of my time is spent keeping her spirit up and thinking of ways to keep her here comfortably. The other 5 is spent regaining strength from the above efforts, with a small percentile wondering if there is someone around Carbondale that can handle a guy going through some dark times. If you can handle mine, I'll handle whatever you got going on. Sound like a plan?
I’m really good at
Kissing, or so I'm told.
Remaining calm when I should be freaking out.
Singing (at least I think so ;)
foot massage
being too serious
The first things people usually notice about me
Would have to say beard, but possibly the way I walk. Seems that I'm going for a lumber sexual look, only not nearly as put together as the style requires.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
By no means are any of these list complete. There's always something new to discover.

Books: The Razor's Edge, Memnoch the Devil, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, A Canticle for Leibowitz, The Last Olympian, Lamb, Choke, The Great Hunt, Heretics of Dune, Heir to the Empire, The Two Towers, On The Road, The Drawing of the Three, The World According to Garp, The Beach, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy,Angels and Demons, 2001, Johnathan Strange and Mr. Norrell, The Historian, Magician:Apprentice, Wicked, Lucifer's Hammer, Thus Spake Zarathustra,

Movies: Bicentennial Man, The Shawshank Redemption, The Godfather, Rocky, Forrest Gump, Star Wars, Star Trek, The Pianist, Gandhi, Unforgiven, Temple of Doom, Dr. Strangelove, Kelly's Heroes, Stripes, The Longest Day, The Longest Yard, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, A Clockwork Orange, The Deer Hunter, Pulp Fiction, Crouching Tiger/Hidden Dragon, M*A*S*H, O Brother, Where Art Thou?, The Matrix, The Dark Knight, Iron Man 2, The Avengers, Oz, The Great and Powerful, An Unexpected Journey, Pirates of the Caribbean, Skyfall, X-Men, Road to Perdition, Kill Bill, Inception, Indian Summer,Mumford,Clerks,

Shows:Black Sails(trying to make time to watch it), NCIS, The Big Bang Theory, Game of Thrones, Under the Dome, Family Guy, Robot Chicken,Mythbusters, American Dad, Naruto:Shippuden, One Piece, Da Vinci's Demons, Lie to Me, Lost,

Music: (what's on my WALKMAN at the moment)
Tom Waits, Katzenjammer, Eleni Mandell, Portishead, Die Antwoord, Rob Thomas, Green Day, Nirvana, Tool, Sublime, Linkin Park, Foo Fighters, Slipknot, Johnny Cash, The Offspring, Tricky, Ice Cube (old school gangsta shit), Audioslave, RATM, Live, Disturbed, Weezer, The Black Keys, RHCP, Cake, STP, Dan Bern, The White Stripes, SOAD, A Perfect Circle, Evanescence, Primus, Patsy Cline, Nancy Sinatra, Gorillaz, Guns `n`Roses, Puscifer, Hank Williams (I and II), Beck ,Chevelle, The Beastie Boys, The Doors, Alanis Morissette, Bob Marley, Allison Krauss, Snoop, Jewel, CCR, Bush, Eminem, Flight of the Conchords, Clare Fader, NIN, Eric Clapton, HED(P.E.), Pink Floyd, Garth Brooks, Shinedown, The Puppini Sisters, Tenacious D, The Lonely Island, Clutch, The Rolling Stones, Jon Lajoie, Dan Auerbach, Pantera, The Velvet Underground, Maroon 5,

At night I listen to comedy stations on Pandora.
The six things I could never do without
Music concerts
Netflix Bob's Burgers
My Towel if you don't know, then Google it
comfortable shoes because heels hurt
Foreplay penetration = finale
Fire -water - burn
my Washburn six strings
laptop because I'm old school
Coffee = life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When I have time for less serious thoughts
• what I would sing if I ever wanted to go to karaoke
•what kind of show could I put on if I volunteered at the local radio station
•I need to pick up my guitar more often
•I wish I could have a dog

The more serious stuff
•What I'm going to do
•where am I going, how I'll get there eventually
•where can I find a job ASAP where I can make enough money to break free from the gravitational pull of Southern Illinois.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I can I'll be down at The Cellar or somewhere else on the strip. Otherwise I'm home reading or watching TV.
You should message me if
I just want to talk to people who can unconsciously make me forget everything but the good things above and come up with some fresh positive adventures or concepts we can work out together for fun.