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44 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I live in Prospect Heights. I moved here from San Diego, following longish stints in Boston, Berkeley, DC, Austin, and New Orleans. And before that, I was in Manhattan, so you could say all my life's a circle. If you like speaking in allegories and Harry Chapin lyrics. Literally and cartographically, it'd be more accurate to compare it to some zigzagging lines. But where's the poetry in that?

I liked the ease of San Diego, but prefer the political and cultural mindsets of Austin & Berkeley. Ultimately, New York has more to offer. Not that more is always more - but by the time you figure that out, you may have already lived an interesting life.

I'm witty, perceptive, and conversational. And much easier to understand in person than in this here profile..
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a digital analyst in SoHo. I've had more careers than a cat has lives, but they trend closer to my heart.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Catching flying objects. Timing and wording of phrases. Human tip calculation. Forging positive interactions with canines and nieces.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People think I'm younger than I am. It's a blessing and a curse, as it's flattering and I'm not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Straight Man, Pale Fire, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting, Everything is Illuminated, A Confederacy of Dunces, Into Thin Air.

Movies: Almost Famous, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Field of Dreams, Fish Tank, Cabin in the Woods, No Country for Old Men, 36 Pasos.

Music: Jay-Z, Arcade Fire, Wolf Parade, Radiohead, Mazzy Star, Red Hot Chile Peppers, anything Kanye doesn't like.

Food: Thai, Japanese, Italian, seafood, American (new).
Strong coffee, dark chocolate, craft beer, scotch.

Television: Elementary, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Homeland, Hannibal, Walking Dead. All-time: Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, 30 Rock, The Wire.

Comics: Calvin & Hobbes, Hyperbole and a Half, Peanuts.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well-crafted stories
Coffee & chocolate
Hot sauce
People of intelligence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random vivid place memories that pop into my head.

This big crazy city: Forever?

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday nights are as varied as winter snowflakes, most of which involve crystals of icy craft beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I'm on the rowing machine, I like to close my eyes and pretend I'm on the Charles with the Winkielvoss twins.
You should message me if
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People respect your intelligence. (I don't care whether you agree. I trust them.)

You're capable of social grace, at least once in a while.

You have a sense of humor, and it matters to you.