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44 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I returned to New York City about a year ago after spending seven years in San Diego, following lots of years in other cool cities. I missed the culture, and I also have family here, including a niece and nephew.

Summarizing a life is complicated. Instead, why not read a few snippets?

1. One of the best parts of living in San Diego were the Friday happy hours overlooking the beach. The oceanography institute served good beer, and everyone would come, hang out, and watch the sun set over the Pacific.

2. I went to the summer Olympics in Atlanta in 1996, where it was hot as hell, and the greatest athletes from around the world were repeatedly subjected to American crowds dancing The Macarena.

3. I had an Italian roommate in Berkeley who'd make pasta for all the Italian grad students and postdocs (and me), after which we'd drive over the Bay Bridge en masse and go dancing in the city.

4. I celebrated one New Year's Eve by stealing a bottle of Bacardi 151 and stumbling along the beach in St. Thomas. I was 10.

5. One of my favorite memories of Paris was rollerblading around the city with hundreds of Parisians, accompanied by rollerblading French cops in uniforms and shorts. It was very innocent and communal.

I'm looking for someone intelligent, fun, progressive, and down-to-earth. Capacities for silliness and sarcasm appreciated in equal measures.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Social psychologist slowly acclimating to industry.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Oh, I have my strengths.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have a claw or anything, if that's what you're worried about. I had that thing removed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Pale Fire, The New York Trilogy, Everything is Illuminated, Lost Horizon, Motherless Brooklyn, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting, A Confederacy of Dunces, Into Thin Air.

Movies: Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Cabin in the Woods, Almost Famous, Field of Dreams, Fish Tank, Throw Momma from the Train, The Dark Knight, No Country for Old Men, The Two Towers.

Music: Fade Into You has supplanted Dirt Off Your Shoulder as my favorite song.

Food: Pescatarian who loves Asian food.

Television: Elementary, The Walking Dead, Hannibal, 30 Rock, Brooklyn Nine-Nine. All-time: Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, The Wire. Now I'm watching Supernatural. Try not to judge.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've done without most of the things I could "never" do without, but here:

Streets/trails for walking/biking
Flora in my food
Gathering places
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Opening a coffeeshop.
Getting a dog.
Living where life is simpler.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My coven meets Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know it's a terrible thing to say in 2014, but I prefer meeting people in person.
You should message me if
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I need a girl with a sense of humor, an independent thinker who can tell a good story, appreciates one when she hears one, and enjoys a good meander by bike or foot.