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44 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 40–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:45am
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Just your regular East Coast transplant: I love 3 things (not particularly in this order): music, dancing, and my friends. Became a San Diegan courtesy of a federal government job. I love baseball, football, & will watch SportsCenter any given day of the week. I work out whenever I get a chance, doing a combination of cardiokickboxing and hip hop dance. I like traveling and going back to home to visit the family (preferably during the summer and fall--I love sunshine) with an impromptu trip to Las Vegas, which is always fun and exciting. I like all different types of food and like to cook.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working for the Department of the Navy (no, I'm not an active duty sailor--did the active duty thing a while ago) and I love my job. I also have another part time job that takes me away from anything resembling a social life for at least six months out of the year (more on that later). Between these gigs and hitting the gym when I have some free time, there's not a lot of other places you'll find me, unless it involves some good dance music and a little bit of room on the dance floor. ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Retaining pretty much anything (and I mean ANYTHING) to memory, dancing, singing, spelling (used to be a medical transcriptionist for 6 years), and making anybody laugh. I also have a talent for making anyone feel at ease around me; maybe it's my southern charm/hospitality. Originally being from Virginia, that's something that's really hard to get rid of.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my laugh. Even when I'm in the gym working out in a cardio class, I've been told that my laughter is contagious. And my legs. I have abnormally large calves, which leads a majority of people to believe that I have calf implants. Only had surgery on my leg once, but it was nothing cosmetic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm into James Patterson, Patricia Cornwell, Laurell K. Hamilton, Charlaine Harris, and J. R. Rain. Any type of movie that has a LOT of action (i.e. fast cars, cool gadgets, guns, explosions, and all that) is my kind of movie. I'm extremely eclectic when it comes to music; if you pick up my iPod nano, it would be hard to pick one particular genre in general, but if I had to choose one, it would have to be any type of dance music or something that has even a faint hint of bass in the background. I love all types of food, especially anything that's spicy! I have a particular affinity for Mexican, Indian, Italian, or Thai food. My new favorite place is a Himalayan restaurant that is absolutely awesome!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, my family, my iPod, my laptop, workout/dance clothes/shoes, and most of all, my memory (discussed previously-lol).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What cardiokickboxing or dance class I'm going to next. Or what I'm going to cook for dinner. Pretty simple....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On the sofa if I've done one or two cardiokickboxing classes that day. I may go crazy and treat myself to a movie or be naughty and get a cupcake from a place downtown. If any of my friends need me on a Friday night on short notice, I'm always available for them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Can't put it all out there before we've even met one another, now can I? Must leave something for a conversation starter.
You should message me if
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You would like to go out, are looking for a long term laugh partner, or would like to have a random adventure out and about in lovely San Diego.