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45 Chantilly, VA Man


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  • Ages 30–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Politics / Government
Has kids
My self-summary
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I am a separated (over a year, and it's been amicable) father of two older children after 20+ years of marriage. I know most of you will stop there, but for anyone still reading, I am looking for a friend to do things with...someone to start slow as a friend and see how things progress. Ultimately would love to have that someone special, to have that emotional connection with that has been missing from my life for so many years. I'm not looking to go out and get married or move in together tomorrow. I need someone who is patient and understanding. My kids come first, and if you have kids I would expect no less. My time can be limited sometimes, and at the moment a lot of my free time is later in the evening during the week and during the day or evening on the weekends depending....regardless, I am missing adult time for me.

Oh one other thing... I am not looking to rush into introducing anyone new into my children's lives...neither would I expect or want anyone else in the same situation to do that to their kids unless they were ready...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for the weekend...unless I'm working on the weekend :0$

Taking care of my kids, finally taking care of myself...trying to adjust to the newly single life and excited for what it holds.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh...ummmm....making popcorn?
I love doing little things for the special someone in my life, it makes me feel good to put a smile on their face or make them laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies....the usual guy stuff..action/adventure, sci-fi, comedy, horror.... I am a huge horror movie fan...although I love movies in general and will watch just about anything... some favorites are the Star Wars movies, Indiana Jones, a lot of the 80's stuff I grew up watching. And just about any generation horror.
** just watched the movie Let The Right One In. Foreign movie, best movie I have seen in years! Based on a book, see below...

TV....Dexter (sucks it's over), mostly older school...Cheers, Night Court, Family Ties...70's and 80's comedy...and who could forget the classic Tuesday night ABC line up of Happy Days, Laverne & Shirley, and Three's Company! Occasionally Family Guy or Simpsons. Need to catch up on Hannibal and The Following as I missed season 2 for both of them.

Music....I can listen to almost anything but again love the stuff I grew up on from the 70's and 80's...Favorites are Rod Stewart/the Faces, Rolling Stones, Journey, Eagles, Bryan Adams, John Mellencamp, REO Speedwagon... even some older school like Sam Cooke, Tina Turner ...does anyone remember The Committments??? Also nothing beats a good live rock concert (I did take my teenage daughter to see Paramore recently, never heard of them before but loved it!).

Food....popcorn, I can make the hell out of a bowl of popcorn. Mexican food is my favorite hands down (I just need to learn how to cook :0S). Seafood is a close second. I also enjoy a good martini - the real kind made with gin.

Books...anything by Stephen King, most other horror novels. Also classic novels.
Just finished reading a foreign book called Let The Right One In. There is a movie based on the same. I recommend both the book and the movie!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The, friends, music....ya know...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything... and nothing...about how my new life is going to pan out. Sometimes my mind goes a mile a minute, sometimes it just goes blank and chills out....which is nice...unless I'm driving...or operating heavy machinery...

Also I often wonder if I am the only one on here who bothers to read the answers to other people's questions..?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my daughter (my son is now in the Marines and doesn't live here) either driving her around or watching movies and spending time together! I wouldn't trade it for the world!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You have any questions or read anything that interests you..!

You are happy and have a positive outlook!

You can teach me how to cook :-S

You are NOT into ANY illegal drugs, even the "soft" stuff like marijuana.

*** Also, because some seem to be put off by this, but if I "like (or rate with stars)" you or add you as a favorite but haven't contacted you yet, it's most likely because I saw something in your narrative or pics that sparked an interest, and I might not have time to check it out then but want to go back later and read everything. I do in fact read the answers to the questions. Like on the quickmatch, you can't read the questions, but I may rate you or favorite you so I can go back later and look in detail. If that makes sense?

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