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44 M Centreville, VA

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
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Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
I am a separated father of two older children. Sadly, most of you will stop reading there (apparently even women who are also separated don't want to date a separated man, it seems :-S). For anyone still reading, I am looking for that special person in my life, like we all are I guess. Someone to share things with, someone to look forward to seeing, someone who puts a smile on my face just by calling or texting me hi because I know they were thinking about me. And someone who I can make feel the same way. Someone who I think of first when I have good news to share or need to be comfort and support. Someone special, to have that emotional connection with that has been missing from my life for so many years. However neither am I looking to go out and get married or move in together tomorrow. I want someone who is patient and understanding. I'm tired of going through life alone. I would love to meet someone, take things slow and see what happens.

I love to laugh, and to make other people laugh. A sense of humor is a must! =) Interests include (but are not limited to) movies, music/live concerts, reading, hanging out with my friends, and most of all being with my kiddos!! And I'm hoping to get back into hiking this spring, I'm dying to head to the mountains and would love someone to share it with! Oh, and martinis, love me a good martini (the real kind, made with gin)!
What I’m doing with my life
Taking care of my kids, finally taking care of myself...trying to adjust to the newly single life and excited for what it holds.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh...ummmm....making popcorn?
I love doing little things for the special someone in my life, it makes me feel good to put a smile on their face or make them laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies....the usual guy stuff..action/adventure, sci-fi, comedy, horror.... I am a huge horror movie fanatic...although I love movies in general and will watch just about anything... some favorites are the Star Wars movies, Indiana Jones, a lot of the 80's stuff I grew up watching. And just about any generation horror.

TV....Dexter (sucks it's over), mostly older school...Cheers, Night Court, Family Ties...70's and 80's comedy...and who could forget the classic Tuesday night ABC line up of Happy Days, Laverne & Shirley, and Three's Company!

Music....I can listen to almost anything but again love the stuff I grew up on from the 70's and 80's...Favorites are Rod Stewart/the Faces, Rolling Stones, Journey, Eagles, Bryan Adams, John Mellencamp, REO Speedwagon... even some older school like Sam Cooke ...Also nothing beats a good live rock concert (I did take my teenage daughter to see Paramore recently, never heard of them before but loved it!).

Food....popcorn, I can make the hell out of a bowl of popcorn. Mexican food is my favorite hands down (I just need to learn how to cook :0S). Seafood is a close second.

Books...anything by Stephen King, most other horror novels. Also classic novels.
The six things I could never do without
The, friends, music, popcorn, Mexican food, martinis....ya know...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything... and nothing...about how my new life is going to pan out. Sometimes my mind goes a mile a minute, sometimes it just goes blank and chills out....which is nice...unless I'm driving...or operating heavy machinery...

Also I often wonder if I am the only one on here who bothers to read the answers to other people's questions..?
On a typical Friday night I am
Normally, with my kids or with my friends, either at their home or out on the town, or at home...lately more often than not I'm home with a movie or something.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have any questions or read anything that interests you..!

You can teach me how to cook :-S

If you aren't into games. The longer I'm in the dating world, the more I see it's nothing but games, as bad as / if not worse than high school. The whole "chase me and maybe I'll date you" thing is a little old. We're all adults, either there is an attraction, spark, interest, whatever, or there's not. If there is, let's chat and see what happens. It's that simple.

Oh one other thing....I have two older kids and I am not looking to rush into introducing anyone new into their lives...neither would I expect or want anyone else in the same situation to do that to their kids unless they were ready...

*** Also, because some seem to be put off by this, but if I "like (or rate with stars)" you or add you as a favorite but haven't contacted you yet, it's most likely because I saw something in your narrative or pics that sparked an interest, and I might not have time to check it out then but want to go back later and read everything. I do in fact read the answers to the questions. Like on the quickmatch, you can't read the questions, but I may rate you or favorite you so I can go back later and look in detail. If that makes sense?

Because it seems like everyone else is doing this (no, I'm not always a follower lol)...:

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