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35 Oslo, Norway Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 30, 2013
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, French
My self-summary
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First, I am not in NYC (I know, I know... very misleading!) I WAS living in NY when I created this account, but then I moved to Oslo and I can't seem to change it. Sorry!

I'm a lobbyist, a traveler, a (learning) photographer and a PhD candidate (War Studies) ... I moved to Oslo for a very cool job and a change of pace.

I'm a strong proponent of snark, sarcasm and the dark humor, but I maintain that optimism is the only reasonable way to get on with things.

I believe Sunday mornings are for brunch, that family defies geography and biology, and that Scotch exists because the universe loves me and wants me to be happy.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a humanitarian advocate… A sort of activist-lobbyist. I work for an international aid organization with a focus on protection of civilians in armed conflict, and on displacement crises in the Middle East.

I work hard and I travel a lot, but I would like to meet someone that makes me want to stay home a bit more often.
I’m really good at
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Vegetarian chili, pecan pie and baileys chocolate cheese cake ...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes

...also, apparently, my "neutral" face is sometimes confused with "angry face"... do not be alarmed!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A few recent favorites and a few oldies but goodies…

Books… Fierce Invalids Home from Hot Climates; The Zanzibar Chest; War (Junger); Anne of Green Gables; Great Expectations; Reading Lolita in Tehran; Game of Thrones series; Skinny Legs and All...

Movies… Like Crazy; A Life Aquatic; Vicky Cristina Barcelona; Take This Waltz: The Darjeeling Limited; Stealing Beauty; Bourne Identity; Office Space; Up In The Air; Meet me in Saint Louis; Crazy, Stupid Love …

Shows… True Blood; Mad Men; Modern Family; Family Guy; How I Met Your Mother; Glee…

Music… Arcade Fire; Vampire Weekend; Florence + the Machine; The Kinks; Amy Winehouse; K’naan; Rihanna; Antibalas; Galactic; Joni Mitchell; Nat King Cole; The Killers; Devendra Banhart; Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros ...

Food…so hard to choose… Lebanese; Ethiopian; Italian; Indian; Cuban… I could go on…
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Passport
- Smartphone
- Jasmine green tea
- Skype
- Kindle
- Family- biological and chosen (my compass)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have read the entire Sookie Stackhouse series.

There. I said it. What a weight off!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you actually live IN Olso (or close-ish at least!) I'm not interested in a booty call from someone passing through, and I don't need a "pen pal" from some other country!