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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:33am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Where to start? I'm a fairly new arrival to Seattle, having moved here from the East Coast just a few years ago...

I'm passionate about many things in my life- cooking and enjoying good food, good music (classical, indie rock, jazz, etc.), listening to NPR, running, sailing, volunteering, and finding genuine connection with others.

I LOVE to cook and enjoy good food, especially with those close to me. Perhaps I will cook for you, too!

I like being present with others. When I'm with people, my phone goes away! If you're like this too, then we're already off to a good start...

In general, I'm looking for someone who is thoughtful, genuine, kind, and has similarly progressive values (pro-choice and pro-same-sex marriage, etc.)

I'm especially attracted to warm, smart, thoughtful women who have a voice and enjoy sharing it with the world. I'm fairly assertive myself, in a balanced and grounded way (a good combo of my East Coast and West Coast identities, I think!), and I'm drawn to others who have a similar warmth, vibrancy, and grounded substantial-ness to them. Does this sound like you, dear reader? If so, read on!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in the nonprofit/philanthropic sector.

When not at work, I love to sail on Lake Union, run along Elliott Bay, sing, volunteer, explore new places to eat, cook, go to lectures at Town Hall, concerts, etc...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making lasting, meaningful connections with others
Being assertive, yet thoughtful and kind
Sailing and windsurfing
Cooking (and talking passionately about good food!)
Making my friends laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my height... and my smile...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite Movies: Lost in Translation, Blade Runner, Dead Poets Society, Afterlife
Favorite Music: The XX, Phoenix, Sting, Brahms, Beethoven, Miles Davis, Billy Joel, Vienna Teng
Favorite Restaurants: Le Pichet, Boat Street Kitchen, The Dish, Bellini
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Connection (friends, love)
2. Good food
3. Good music
4. The ocean
5. Irish breakfast tea
6. My ORCA Card!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
[Sound of crickets chirping]
Don't get me wrong... I like a good think. I just can't say that there's any one thing that I think mostly about!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home or sharing good food with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dunk my grilled cheese in ketchup.
(I can tell you more shocking things, but it will have to be in person;)
You should message me if
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...some (or all) of the following sound like you--
~You're done dating around and are ready to meet your partner!
~You have an open heart; you're self-aware and can express your emotions freely, and you want a guy who will be this way with you, too.
~You're fun, flexible, and are a good communicator.
~You're optimistic about what a relationship could be like and want a connection where the little gestures of romance, affection, and gratitude continue well beyond the initial few months!
~You think about the world, value community, can be philosophical about life, and continue to learn more about yourself and what's truly important to you.
~You're ready to laugh and have some serious fun, new experiences, and some of the best home-cooked meals of your life!