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45 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 26
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Wants kids
Likes cats
English, French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Without sounding too generic I hope; I find writing about myself so difficult... I'm an extroverted introvert originally from the Chicago suburbs, then LA for 17 years, and now Oakland. I'm passionate about wine (but also appreciate good beer), am an (sadly almost ex- at this point after several injuries) Ultimate player, and enjoy watching football (ND, Chicago Bears). I love to read (primarily fiction), prefer pubs to clubs, adore roller coasters, like trying new restaurants/foods but also like to cook, love my plants, enjoy car camping and hiking, and miss thunderstorms.
I'm looking to find someone special to share life with, and my ultimate goal is to marry and have a family (be that one we start together or one that I can become a part of). That someone special would have some interests similar to mine, but also have others he could introduce me to. He'd be kind, loving, intelligent, respectful, self-aware, open to trying new things, and young at heart.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring the East Bay, looking to learn more about wine, ditto craft beer, trying to be the best I can be at my job, doing various Meetups, looking for love...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
procrastinating. :}
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea; you'd have to ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Time Traveler's Wife, Martian Chronicles, the Song of Fire and Ice series, Atlas Shrugged, anything that looks interesting at the library
Movies: Out of Africa, Goodfellas, The Artist, American Beauty, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, Amadeus, The Way We Were, Young Frankenstein, Blues Brothers...
TV: Whatever's on Masterpiece Mystery and Masterpiece Classics,
Fringe, Chuck, The Good Wife, So You Think You Can Dance, Big Bang Theory, Antiques Roadshow, Scott and Bailey, How I Met Your Mother
Music: Adele, Peter Gabriel, Barbra Streisand, Tori Amos, John Mayer, U2, Young Dubliners, The Cure, Sarah McLachlan, Grant Lee Buffalo, Led Zeppelin, Arcade Fire, the blues...
Food (these are favorites, but I like exploring all types): Wine (it counts as food, yes? ;}) and cheese, ice cream, Italian, Thai, Indian, Mexican, any form of curry...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The seasons/weather
Good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where my life is going
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a Meetup, at home watching a movie, grocery shopping; who knows what Friday may bring.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I admit it, it isn't private. ;}
You should message me if
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you find any of the above interesting, know how to form a proper sentence, and are looking for someone to explore life with.