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ELFAIRD

58 Greenwich, CT Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–68
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 31
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Who am I? The existential question! I am optimistic, joyful, confident, fun-loving, and responsible. I love my sons, my family, my work, and my friends. I try not to focus too much on myself and get out there in the world to try to make some kind of difference. It doesn't always work, but I try. As for why I'm on here: I'm not really sure. I am a widow and know how great a relationship can be. While I'm not looking to replace that, I'm also not willing to settle. If the right person comes my way, great; if not, that's ok, too!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, singing, homeowning, pet owning, raising boys who are/should be almost grown by now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel comfortable. Being a leader.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair and smile. I think, anyway.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Whatever I am currently reading, have recently seen or listened to, or eaten.
Just saw Larry David's Fish in the Dark, Just read "In the Unlikely Event", just listened to "It All Fades Away" (I love the music from Broadway musicals, although I generally hate going to them.) I love binge tv watching: Just watched many seasons of Weeds. How did I miss this from the beginning? I love Italian and Indian food, separately...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee
The New Yorker
Maine
My camera
Swimming
My sons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make sure my boys are launched happily into adulthood, despite their losses. Why this country is regressing...why do we debate the need for gun control? Why can't we solve police brutality and racism? Why do we debate the existence of climate change instead of focusing on reversing it? Why do we care who someone else marries?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from the week, out to dinner, or hanging out at home with friends or family...and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like dumb television shows. I sing and dance when I'm alone in my car.
You should message me if
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You're looking for friendship, companionship, an adult relationship...and maybe love.