Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am happy , settled with my lifes ambitions when it comes to
career , stability and my children (with ex) . I miss and like
having someone to care about , laugh with and build memories with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Letting work trot along at its normal pace whilst getting out there
to expand my social life , hobbies and interests and hope to have a
few adventures along the way. I enjoy short trips to new places
especially if there is a bit of history , art , culture or
architecture along the way , i have just started going to a Gym and
pool again after over a year and feel really refreshed because of
it . I tinker with motorbikes which i like to take abroad and go
camping with but not into the biking scene , collecting old/retro
stuff . I volunteer at a Hospice furniture project a couple of
saturdays a month which is great fun. Try to be spontaneous and
head off on adventures at the drop of a hat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel at ease . Apparently i am 'really easy to be
with'. I am not a bad cook. I am a good listener , analyser and
problem solver for people i care about. Very practical and can
build/fix most things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Confidence, smile and a slightly eccentric sense of humour.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love all books at all levels , not too much fiction and never
thought i could handle heavy classics but seem to be into Thomas
Hardy at the moment !. I like all film styles but not mass produced
predictable hollywood although i dont mind the odd thriller/romcom.
I like a lot of classic older films . Some like it hot , Lawrence
of Arabia , Far from the madding crowd etc. Music and food all over
the place from Joan Armatrading to the googoo dolls. I dont hold
with having to follow one theme or discarding something because its
out of fashion or not currently raved about in the sunday
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
New interests , A trip planned , a trip in planning , a good book
to read , my kids , meeting new people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life being one chance , should i take more risks and Will i ever
see my pension money back !. How fortunate i am compared to some
others and How the worthy never seem to be rewarded !. If i let
life trot along will the years pass by too quickly !.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the Gym then out for a drink or off somewhere, whether its to
see the kids or on an adventure . Very seasonal and like to chill
at home if deepest winter or weather bad.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Leave this blank i think.
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 38–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are independant and appreciate the need for overlap in lives as
well as free space. You genuinely want to start as a friend to
share nice times out , interests, laughs and life with. To take it
steady and maybe lead to romance . Nobody in a hurry and nobody who
thinks they need to live their life to a media stereotype or self
diagnoses themselves as mad or crazy please .
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