First, if I message you first and you don't have any interest in me, just say so. I promise I won't get mad at you. When I leave a message, I find it very rude and insulting that I don't get a response back after the time and effort I put into a message.
Second, I do not have an A-list subscription on this site and I refuse to pay to get one. So if you rate me highly in the Quickmatch section, it will tell me that someone rated me highly or someone likes me, but it won't show who. If you like what's on my profile and want to get to know me, just send me a message and we'll go from there. I respond back to all people that send me messages and I never ignore them.
Okay, enjoy reading the rest of my profile. :)
Hello. My name is Eric. I'm just looking for a nice and kind woman that's between 25-45 who would like to get to know a nice guy like myself and for someone that likes me for being me. I mostly perfer someone that's the same age as me or older up to 45, but I'll accept anyone that younger than me as young as 25 and up. So I'm on this site to see what's out there and I'm not here to play any games.
32 years old; 5'10''; 238 lbs.; Average built; Nice; Kind; Caring; Generous; Sweet; Respectful; Honest; Active; Open-minded; Easy-going; Have been called a down-to-earth person; Responsible; Laid-back; Good listener; Good sense of humor; Believes in Christianity but not super religious; Wants to meet new people; Wants to try new things
-Video Games (anything Nintendo and only when I'm bored)
-Hockey (Red Wings, Street Hockey, Floor Hockey)
-Music (Smash Mouth, Andrew W.K., Matchbox Twenty, Flogging Molly, mostly anything from the 80s, mostly anything else depending on what is it)
-Golf (actual golf but haven't played that in years, mini golf, driving ranges)
-Woodward Dream Cruise
-Coin Collecting (rare coins)
-Hanging out with my friends
OTHER THINGS ABOUT ME:
-My birthday is June 12. That makes me a Gemini for anymore that's interested in a person's zodiac sign.
-I believe that open communication, honesty, and trust are 3 very important things to have in a long-term relationship.
-My goal in life is to live a long, happy, and healthy life.
-I'm very easy-going and laid-back.
-I'm left-handed, but there are some things that I do with my right hand.
-My favorite color is Red.
-Spelling mistakes don't bother me. I know it bothers some people out there, but it doesn't me. I can still make out the word of what whoever tried to write/type.
-I don't want to fly because I kinda have a fear heights. I have never been on an airplane and don't plan on going on one. These 2 feet of mine stay on the ground. Maybe it would be nice if I found someone that would help me conquer that fear.
-I would like to take several road trips around Michigan or to Ohio, Indiana, and Illinois and maybe even to Wisconsin, Pennsylvania, and Kentucky.
-I like wearing ball cap hats. That's been one of my trademarks since I was 12. I do know when there's a time when it's not a good time to wear a hat, like at a special formal event and when I'm home. It is a myth that people go bald if they wear hats all the time. Balding goes through genetics and I am not balding and none of my family is or ever did.
-I like Chinese and Italian foods.
-My favorite season is Summer. If I had to pick a second favorite, it would be Spring.
-I believe in Christianity, but I'm not super-religious. I do believe that Jesus did exist and did what he had to do for everyone by dying on the cross. I wear a cross pendant everyday reminding me of that because that's what I believe in. I do attend church a few times a year. If you're an atheist, I'll respect your beliefs and not say anything nasty about it and I shall do the same for you (not a deal breaker).
- I don't believe there's a law or spiritual rule saying 2 people with 2 different faiths can't be together. Example: If one person is Christian and the other is Jewish and they want to date each other and fall in love with each other, that is fine. I find nothing wrong with that. It's not like they are going to convert each other to the other's faith. Maybe they'll learn something about the other's faith and have a better understanding about it.
-My favorite holidays are Christmas, New Year's, Halloween, and 4th Of July. I also really like my birthday too, but that's my own personal holiday.
-I live a straight-edge lifestyle. That means I don't drink, don't smoke, and don't do drugs. I don't drink any kind of alcohol because I choose not to drink it. It doesn't bother me if other people drink around me. I don't mind if you smoke, but I prefer you don't, but if you do, don't do it around me. If you do drugs, I want nothing to do with you.
-I find nothing wrong with interacial relationships. I believe racism is wrong. I wouldn't mind dating a woman who's Black, Asian, Indian, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, a mix of races or any other races.
THE WOMAN I'M LOOKING FOR:
-Someone who likes me for being me.
-Someone that's willing to start off as friends first and see where things go from there.
-Someone that wants a real relationship and not looking for any friends with benefits, one night stands, or no strings attached fun.
-Someone that can open me up to new things.
-Someone who's mature for their age but can have fun at the same time and can't be all serious all the time.
-Must have a sense of humor.
-Someone who is active enough for for outdoor activities with like biking, skating, swimming or any other activity that can be done outdoors.
-Someone to do indoor activities with like skating (at a rink), shooting pool, or walking around a big mall.
-Someone that can listen and be listened.
-Someone to have pleasant conversations with and talk about anything that's on our minds.
Someone I can share my interests with and she can share her interests with me.
-You don't have a car. I'm tired of being a chauffeur. But if you live close to me or far as 20-30 minutes away from me, I'll let it slide.
-You don't have a job or any income coming in.
-You are always asking me for money. I'm not you're sugar daddy.
-You live over an hour away unless you are willing to travel. I'm willing to travel up to an hour to see you, but if you're not willing to drive to see me, we have a problem.
-You do drugs. Yes, marijuana is a drug, but if you are using it for just a medical reason only, then I'll let that slide
-You are hung up on your ex. I've met 2 women on this site and they couldn't get their minds of their exes and wanted to get back with them.
-You suffering from severe depression or a major bipolar disorder and you are taking all these anti-depressants that aren't helping you.
-You're just looking for friends only and not looking for a serious long-term relationship. This is a "dating" site, not a "just friends" site. If you're looking for friends, get off of this site and go to meetme.com and make friends there.
-You have future plans on moving out of Michigan. I was born and raised here in Michigan and I'm not leaving it. If you really want to move out of the mitten, I don't want to be the one to stop you if that's what you want to do. Who know, maybe you might succeed in convincing me to go with you.
-You say you're "too busy" all the time and don't want to make any time for a relationship. I can understand that you can be busy with your job and/or if you have kids, but if you're always busy hanging out with your friends all the time and not make any time for me, that's unacceptable.