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59 Montclair, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:37am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am the father of teenage girls, originally from NYC but have been living in NJ for the last 16 years. I have diverse interests: movies, theatre, music, art & body/ mind practices like yoga. I have a good sense of humor & like to be playful :) I am loyal to my partner & expect the same in return. I am a foodie & love to find great places to eat. I also enjoy cooking as well particularly with that special person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to stay balanced by exercising regularly & spending time w/ family & friends. I am a movie buff & love many different types of food. I became a kayaking enthusiast last summer & also enjoy playing tennis & swimming regularly. I have my own healthcare related practice & work a good deal but have flexibility w my schedule.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening & making people laugh, being intuitive, emphasizing the positive traits in people & appreciating the best life has to offer! I am also a good cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a twinkle in my eye & will make you smile, I am witty & funny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love independent & foreign films, many types of music: jazz, funk, folk, rock, rock-a-billy, new world, eastern, classical & opera. I love ethnic food - Asian, middle eastern, Indian, Tappas, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my daughters, love, laughter, music, yoga, an appreciation of beauty, a love of nature, movies & art, good strong coffee in the morning & intermittently thru the day, meaningful connection w/ a partner, etc., etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
when I will meet my true love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
listening to music, eating out or making a great meal, catching a movie, going to the gym or tweeking my profile & wondering why I am home alone
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You will have to earn this one!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to meet a great guy who is fun to be around but who also is a person of strong values & character. You connected w my profile & feel we have some shared interests & values.

You are intelligent, strong minded & independent but also warm hearted.

Ps - if you live more than 20 miles away &/or are across rivers, bridges & tunnels thank you but I work locally & am not interested in a long distance relationship. Sorry if that is not romantic but it is real & you will hopefully not think I am rude for not answering. Thank you for reading my profile. Best of luck to you.