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EMYLA78

36 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:20pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Here are things you already know about me: I am tall, I like to travel (almost 20 countries, but that seems like a low number for this uber-travel sophisticated OKC crowd) I had a great orthodontist and if you read more you'll find out that I am a bit of food snob, love neo-soul and R&B (last season at the Hollywood Bowl included Diana Ross and Lionel Richie) and I have sassy taste in the color of my nalgene bottles. What else I can tell you here that are fun-facts about me: I was a Big Ten college athlete (ten points for guessing which sport), went to sleep away camp for 9 summers (best thing my parents did for me as a kid). And now you know I also like to use parentheses to further explain what I am saying.

I am very comfortable in my own skin. I have no qualms about calling people out on their stuff (PG version). My sense of humor is along the lines of the Daily Show and SNL even though I'm not originally from the East Coast. I can do most things on my own, including starting my own business, traveling to foreign countries and even making my own almond milk (it's so deliciously decadent)...but it's so much funner (why isn't that a real word btw?) to do it all with someone else. I talk about things I know and don't talk about things I don't know. Intelligence is a HUGE turn-on for me. My perfect man is combination of Jon Hamm (Don Draper-ish) and Jon Stewart: ridiculous confidence who takes authority with a wicked sense of humor and deep sense of kindness and compassion for others. Too much to ask?
What I’m doing with my life
After starting/owning my own business in my mid-20's and having it get acquired, I was able to work for an international humanitarian organization for a while and traveled globally. Just went back out on my own (for the 3rd time) to do consulting in fundraising. I get a lot of satisfaction out of my career and am looking for someone who feels the same about theirs. If you're going to complain about your job...go get another one but please don't whine to me about it, okay?
I’m really good at
Reaching for things on high shelves/spotting people in crowds (that's a joke about my height...oh boy, please tell me you caught that).
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice, eyes, height, smile...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Start Up Nation, enjoy Malcolm Gladwell currently reading Unbroken and it's unreal, can't wait for the movie. Read a fascinating book about crowdfunding for work. Very exciting stuff. Convinced it's the future in everything fundraising.

Movies: Anything with a happy ending. I literally get mad if I leave a movie and it's downer...I mean in a bad mood mad.
Shows: Mad Men, Newsroom, Homeland. I tried no cable as an experiment and it really sucked!
Music: Old School R&B lover, lots of 80's and 90's stuff. My go-to at all times is Jill Scott. Favorite song though is "Sweet Thing" the original one with Chaka and Rufus.
Food: I am picky here meaning I have super high standards. I love to cook myself a lot and won't go out just to go out. I enjoy tasting the best that food has to offer and experiencing all of the flavors as much as I can.
The six things I could never do without
The light of the sun on my skin, music, my hot pink nalgene bottle, deep, meaningful friendships...how many is that? ok two more...my curiosity and absolutely my family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Someone asked me this question the other day and my first response was that I spend time thinking about human relationships and their dynamics...I know, I know sounds, what? anthropological? but it truly fascinates me how some people can get along with no problem and others can't no matter what.
On a typical Friday night I am
This is an easy one: with friends at a dinner party. Lots of time at my own house. We all love to cook, kick back, laugh and relax. We would really be too obnoxious in a restaurant so we go to the house. Good, clean fun....except when the cops are called on us from singing 80's songs too loud (true story).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I have two pretty useless talents: 1) I can call the celebrity voices out from commercials (like Jason Sudekas is the new TGI Fridays guy) and 2) If you played football at some point in your life, I can probably name the position you played (no really, dad was a high school football coach when I was a kid so I've been on sidelines since I was 5 years old...picture little Hayden Panettiere in Remember The Titans. That was kinda like me).
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you laughed at some of the above, don't have naked photos or a ton of selfies in your profile, if you can stay classy in your note to me, still think that there is something to being chivalrous and think we might hit it off for a coffee or two. And if you got through my profile, photos and all and thought "WOW!"

Also if you can be down with a straight shooter like myself as well as know yourself well enough personally to really know what you want and know how to get after it. I've been amazed by men recently who are wildly accomplished professionally but seem to be a total disaster personally and get confused between what they think they want and what they really want or are unsure of what they want. To quote ESPN "C'mon Man" get yourselves and your personal life together.