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51 M Buenos Aires, Argentina

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I can tie a proper bow tie, find my way through the jungle, talk my way past corrupt cops and keep three lit torches in the air.

Last October, I moved to Buenos Aires, a new city for me, intriguing and exciting. Like many others, I originally came for a short stay. Now, I have a job, friends and an indefinite schedule. I've sailed the Caribbean, ridden a horse through Tibet, lived in Prague and Hong Kong, and traveled in in fifty-some other countries, but there is a feel about this place…

Back in San Francisco, my Stateside home, I played jazz, managed a gallery/event space, backpacked, practiced yoga, biked, and garden on my roof. I plan to do many of the same things here, plus tango and any other interesting activities that come up. I usually have a creative project in the works. Near warm water, I like to dive. Near cold water, ski. On top of water, sail. Not that I've done much of those in the past few months, 'tis true… Then again, I've seen some amazing live music lately, so perhaps balance is maintained.

While working, I consult on IT for large yada znorg gronk. I never, ever feel compelled to talk about it at dinner parties. My usual engagement is a long-term contract, leaving breaks in between for travel or sojourns such as the current move.

I have great friends, many of whom I've known for a very long time. I believe in loyalty, that chivalry is not yet dead, and that principles are not abstract. Give me interesting thoughts, the perfect line, the right touch, the one true note. Snuggling is good, too.

This is the part that I was told to include: 'smart, charming, clever, kind, sweet, edgy, slightly nuts and wonderful.' And contrary to OKC's personality graph, accurate in so many ways (I've compared charts of friends using the site to my experience of them and generally come away impressed), I am excellently-mannered. Seriously, I am.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I speak quietly, most likely. Mischieveous intelligence, perhaps?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Let's see… Strolling over the bookshelves (old-fashioned accessories that cover an entire wall), I spy various volumes of history, with a concentration toward the far right on Italian and Church history for a project from some years ago. There are books on sailing, raising bonsai trees, a shelf of oversized tomes lying flat because the shelves are only so high. Among the literature: The Bear Comes Home by Rafi Zabor (the best book about playing jazz ever), Sometimes A Great Notion (the Great American Novel), Cloud Atlas, Winter's Tale by Mark Helprin, all nineteen of the Aubrey/Maturin novels, Wolf Hall, most of Neal Stephenson's lifetime output. One Salinger, several Le Carre, an Octavio Paz, a haiku collection, and some carefully curated graphic (as in pictures) efforts. A bunch more, because they are large bookshelves.

At least five books by friends and one by a friend of my father. Back issues of Lapham's Quarterly to take on trips, and New Yorkers which I pass on, after I've read them, to a literate homeless gentlemen who frequents my street. I have not seen him for over a month, which is vaguely troubling.

Music: I'll admit it. I was in a rut, listening to the same ol' same ol' for a long while. One of those streaming services which suggest artists, and let you see playlists from your musically-cultivated friends, is breaking my world wide open again. Suddenly, nothing is off-limits, though can only take death metal for thirty seconds per month. I know the lyrics to an astonishing number of songs, though only sing on key for a statistically significant yet less-than-totality number of them.

Movies: Certainly.

Food: Yes.

[I 'll come back to those last two as the situation warrants…]
The six things I could never do without
- My saxophone, six months older than I am.
- Passport, maps, digital doodads, the usual accoutrements.
- The Outside. The World. The World Outside.
- Books. Magazines. Things to read.
- My rooftop garden, humble though it is.
- Serious amusement
On a typical Friday night I am
This summer, it has started with a packing the car and crossing a bridge. Other times, other themes...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've officiated at nine weddings. They are all still together which is, statistically speaking, off the charts.

I have an unpublished novel in a drawer. On a hard drive, actually. Heavily encrypted.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a creative streak, a deep understanding, an unexpected side. You still want to take on the world.

Shakespeare could have been talking about you when he wrote: 'Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale / Her infinite variety: other women cloy / The appetites they feed: but she makes hungry / Where most she satisfies'